Is it best to stop texting someone who never initiates contact?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Yes as the code there is you are too much, irritating him, and basically an annoyance. He needs to miss you !! Give it a week and see what happens !!! Make sense?

[Asker]

Makes total sense. Thank you

[Guy13]

Yep... make him suffer a little when you get the What's Up garbage ;-)

[Asker]

if he doesn't contact me after a week should I just delete his number?

[Guy13]

I give them a contact with a Z in front of it. ZJasmine and ZLaura. This way I never have to see them in Contacts unless one day a text is sent. And Z means unstable as hell...

[Asker]

😂that cheered me up.

It's about 5 days since we last texted. He was his usual friendly self. He read my last message but hasn't texted back. But I'll do what you've suggested. It makes sense

[Guy13]

ENJOY THE F- out of your weekend... grin stupid at his ass..."why..." "I didn't even know I was grinning" Catch up with me Monday... I can't wait ;-)

[DavidRaul]

Yes its best to end it that way. You can't put work in everything when can't reciprocate in the same way

[DavidRaul]

*they can't

[devilish-cutie]

it depends, on what you talk about, how often etc, do you ever give a chance to other person to text first and such

[Asker]

When we text, he has a lot to say. He even asks open ended questions but then when I reply, he goes quiet on me. He reads the message though. I wait a few days to see if he'll text first but he never does.

[devilish-cutie]

Wel I had my fair share of guys inconsistent texting and not all of them were bad but its definitely not nice feeling. So it really depends on how much you like him and how much you are willing to put up with it. Also, do you see achother in rl or not. If you see eachother n rl maybe he is just not a texter, that is totally a thing with guys. He could also be busy with other things in his life but then again he could just have you as an option and seeing someone else. You are best to asses the situation. If you mind you can also tell him, thats also ok. But my best advice I can give you is to get off the phone and get him to meet in rl, that is what matters most.

[Asker]

Thank you

We see each other three times a week but that's at work. He's only met with me two times outside of work. I like him a lot but I don't want to be a nuisance of he doesn't want to text me 🙁. I sent the last text and he's read it, but he hasn't responded in 5 days.

[Asker]

sometimes I feel he's casually seeing a woman. But not sure

[devilish-cutie]

I get it but id bring it up like if he is still interested or just busy. Also does he ask you on dates? Think about his life situation. Could he really be busy? Also sometimes guys need space to rethink if they wanna date you.

[Asker]

that's a good point about needing space to think, because he has told me he's not ready for a relationship. He keeps letting me know he likes me and misses me when he doesn't see me. I'm not sure if he's confused and unsure of if he's playing mind games because he's not a very open person

[Asker]

he's hard to work out

[devilish-cutie]

If he Said he is not ready for relationship zhen that says it all

[Wise4myage]

Yes, especially if they know and don't try to change.

[itsalyssaagain]

I think for men especially, yeah.

[In_Trance]

Does the someone have a penis?

[Asker]

Lol yes