Do you think that’ll make him happy?

[bbhhgirl]

My boyfriend lately I have been letting him pay for dinner all the time. Today I told him that I want to start being fair and it should always be me paying for the dinner or breakfast and every day that we get together it should be like that.

[dynamicyandere]

I genuinely enjoy paying for my girlfriend’s dinner because it makes feel good when I’m taking care of her.


Some guys enjoy paying (if they’re in a serious relationship already).


Other guys may feel a little annoyed if you never offer to pay.


You can tell him how much you appreciate him paying for your meals and you can ask him how he’d feel if you treated him sometime.


His response will reveal how he feels about paying for your meals all the time.

[dynamicyandere]

makes me feel good*

[Theabcking]

No, you have to tell him how good of a provider and gentleman he's been to you. Your relationship is not about money, but you both bring to each others life. You have to show him how much appreciate him physically and emotionally.

[bbhhgirl]

I understand and I do I just told him I think it would be fair to him seeing that he pays a lot

[Theabcking]

Everyone has a different currency. for him it's a masculine male provider for you it's being a femmine woman. if I gave you $1 and you gave me $1 it would be totally pointless, You offer him something that he is seeking in a woman. We all want to talk to a persona and not a mirror. What you offer him is worth what whatever he does for you. And whatever he does for you is worth what you do for him. Just get lost in the magic and don't worry about it.

[Avicenna]

If he has been unhappy about paying all the time, definitely. Otherwise, I don't know.

[Waldoe]

is he "Unhappy"? has he complained about always paying? Don't try to fix something that isn't broken... He might enjoy being the "man"

[mr4435669]

Only a fool pays for a woman's dinner.

[Jouth]

you should pay for kisses too