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Im friends with this guy I have known for almost five years. The first two years he's been trying to talk to me, has even gone far as to cyber stalk me like adding me on social media and somehow managed to get my number without me giving it to him. The bad part about it I was dating my ex and he was cool with him. He still is interested in me but has a girlfriend. They've been together ten years which is why I don't understand him.
One day I told him I liked a guy and he was curious to know. The guy I like is someone who is in his circle, his best friend. When I told him the news he didn't react much but asked me if I wanted him to let the guy know I liked him. I said sure but not sure if he has actually did it. I reminded him about it and he said he's going to do it. I know I can talk to the guy myself but I'm just curious to know if he will tell him.
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Wow man that's crazy, what a weird situation to be in. I don't know what's up with that other guy, it sounds like he's been kind of obsessed with you for years even though you've never been interested. And now he's still trying to get involved even though he has a girlfriend? Kinda sketchy if you ask me. I definitely wouldn't trust that he'll actually tell his friend you like him, I think he's probably just saying that to try and stay close to you or something. There's no way he'd want to help you get with his friend when he still likes you. He'd probably tell his friend in a way that makes it seem like you're not that into the other guy or something so he doesn't have to see you with someone else. Or maybe not even tell him at all. I'd just message the friend yourself on Instagram or Facebook or whatever and be straight up, tell him how you feel. That way you know for sure he finds out about it directly from you, and this other guy can't mess it up or twist it around. It would suck if he told his friend and ruined your chance before you even had a shot, you know? I definitely wouldn't trust that dude to do you any favors after being weird about you for so long. Just message the friend yourself and cut out the middle man, seems like the safest bet to me so you're in control of the situation. Good luck, hope it works out for you! Let me know what happens.
Cyber stalk?
Instant red flag right there.
Nope. This is a DIY project