So do I tell him? ?

[Anonymous]

So my wife has a sister who is dating a new guy. Of course she tells my wife all the details including the sex which of course my wife tells me. The sister's main complaint about the new boyfriend is that he doesn't have sex with her enough and she is considering having an affair with another guy to get her needs met. I feel like I should mind my own business but bro code tells me that I should tell him. What should I do?

[lightbulb27]

wouldn't it be nice if people communicated better?

I'd probably talk in general with him not specifically. your call in the moment. being direct is also possible..."e. g. if you don't XYZ, then she's the type that won't stick around".

[Lliam]

"Bro code"? Seriously?
She's your wife's sister. Let your wife deal with it.

[Abbycado]

I’d keep out of it. They are presumably adults. Let them make their own mistakes.

[Asker]

Thanks. That is what I'm leaning towards.

[EmmaMary]

Personally I would consider leaving them to sort this out for themselves.

[Asker]

Thanks.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the MHO.

[Asker]

Welcome.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the delicate dance of relationships and the ever-present "bro code"! As a relationship coach, I can assure you that discretion is your best friend here. It's important to respect boundaries and privacy. Discussing your concerns with your wife and letting her handle her sister's situation is probably the best approach. Telling him directly could backfire and strain relationships all around. Keep your focus on what you can control, and sprinkle in some compassion and trust in the process. 😄

[Flower7]

Tell your wife to tell her sister to break up with the guy because he’s not what she wants.

[Asker]

Hmm, I'm not sure that would work.

[Catherine80]

Don't tell him