Why is it soo difficult to find someone theses days people have become soo picky on what they want and not everyone can meet their expectations?

[nicknamedsusie04]

[chicosuave]

Yesterday at a nightclub a chubby girl took me out to dance. I was nice enough to tell her yes. She was drunk and all but she was not my type. I'm an ass guy so I like big asses. She didn't really have one. So she was going crazy horny with me touching me every where and she wanted me to bang her after the night was done and she kept telling me over and over. I kept checking her out to see if I can manage to get my ding dong hard but from previous experiences, I just can't. The girl has to be curvy. So I wanted an opportunity to ditch her so I was trying to figure it out how to. Girls are experts in ditching guys so I was like I don't know how they do it. she told me to take her to the bathroom so I ditched her there. I don't know it's my biological response to a certain type of body to mate as a man. It depends on what my hormones respond to. Some guys are horny as fuck so they mate with anything that comes to them. I have a female best friend who has a lot of sex with guys but won't date her because she is not attractive at all. The guys end up ghosting her. She wants a boyfriend but the guys she dates won't make her the girlfriend. And tbh I would not date her either. She is not attractive and her hygiene is very poor. She dresses like a dude. No offense to her but if she did better she could have better luck with dudes. Also she needs to stop being picky. The guys she chooses are always guys who have other options. Then she gets mad because they won't choose her. I told her because she like the guys with options. Guys with options will never settle for her

[DannyUk2017]

I know right? Is stupid... but all this stuff is Thanks to the Internet! Most of them became Electronic Zombies, and if they don't get a "like" to the pictures/posts, then they cry their eyes out.
Plus all these "filters" on their face and body makes them look Awesome/Sexy online, so "they want to find the same Awesome/sexy" person in real life. But when comes down to meeting they start "posting" that the whole thing has been a Disaster... So yeah they Put their Expectations Too High! But they "offer" less Effort themselfs... and that goes both ways...

[LazerBean]

Who you allow to control your emotions is a big deal, and who you spend your time with and try to build meaningful relationships can have a huge positive or negative effect on you. Most people aren't picking up, as is demonstrated by the amount of people who have been mentally and emotionally broken because of their poor relationship choices.

So yeah, be picky with the person you're trying to spend the rest of your life with. Otherwise you're just wasting your time.

[nicknamedsusie04]

You got a point there but there's people being picky on nice body, good looking, tall, be blond with blue eyes, sportif etc...

Then there's being respectful, kind, loyal, lisent to you, always there for you etc but but these days people my age dont really care about that they just want the person to be perfect which is not what everyone has and can be.

[FilmGuy93]

Social media and a general fear of being taken advantage of has left people under the impression that they have more options than they really do.

[nicknamedsusie04]

Cause of that it just ruins everything and any chance of being in a relationship

[FilmGuy93]

Yup! People are the cause of the vast majority of their own problems.

[Zolly99999]

Because that's how today's society is..

Guys need to be X tall , X size dick, make X amount of money.

Girls need to have X size boobs, X size waist , weigh X amount..

It's all BS.

[nicknamedsusie04]

That's really all they think about and it's just ridiculious.

[Zolly99999]

@nicknamedsusie04 I couldn't agree more ! I'm glad i don't think like that..

[ProVox]

Social media and Hollywood create false expectations.

[nicknamedsusie04]

It's sad that every kid my age thinks that but it doesn't end up well cause u can't just get what ever you want in life so they pass on opportunities they could of had.

[ProVox]

Right, cos when the looks and body are gone, all they're left with is personality and conversations; and that rarely ends well. 😆

[JustADudePlayinADude]

My standards are don't be physically unhealthy (excluding uncontrollable stuff like diabetes), have a goal in life, and be emotionally mature. Few people in general, I feel, meet these basic requirements. Which it pretty sad.

[JustADudePlayinADude]

is* not it

[Guy13]

Yes, you are right. People are very very nicpicky these days. It is hard for everyone. Fortunately, you gave plenty of time and do not have to be in a rush 🥳

[jshm2]

They haven't.

They're just avoiding entitled Karens like you, and have learned the red flags to avoid.

[Heolurt]

Females have too high of standards and their list of requirements, only 1% of guy fit into so you're all fighting for the same 1% of guys.

[nicknamedsusie04]

Got a point but both sides have their own standards requirements on what they want into that person and if they dont them they get thrown away doesn't matter if it's a girl or a guy.

[DontBDumb]

This was really insightful. Sad how people become conditioned. It people being more stuck on the selves than fully in love with another person outside of themselves. However, the older I get the longer my list gets lol and I am 33 single for 20.

[itsmegrave]

Sometimes people just aren't compatible. But if you keep trying, eventually you'll find someone special.

[MikeInHawaii]

I’d say most people don’t meet their own expectations.

[Iron_Man]

These are tough times but you must fight through it

[Waldoe]

You are right.. not "everyone" can meet my expectations, so don't waste my time.

[Anonymous]

In simple terms. The juice has to be worth the squeeze.

[Farmer27]

It's probably because of dating apps.