How to get this guy to make a move or am I friendzoned I can’t tell?

[Anonymous]

I’ve posted this more than once cause I don't know where to go with his last comment

[MJstheman23]

I'd say you need to be a little more forward. Us guys aren't the brightest sometimes, I know it's hard to believe. When it comes to myself I'm completely oblivious when it comes to noticing a girl is flirting with me. If I do notice it's because it's being laid on hella thick. So I'd definitely make a move if I were you. At worst you're friend zoned and then you're right where you started and at least you won't have any regrets. I can't tell you how many girls I've had mad crushes on that I didn't make a move only to find out at a later and too late date that they felt the same. All so I could protect my ego. Carpe de deim, seize the day. Ha

[Anonymous]

It seems kind of neutral, but he wouldn’t be texting you if he didn’t like you somewhat. Maybe there is some potential there. I don’t know.

[Asker]

I don't know either

[dustybiker]

Wait till you’re in person and tell him you like him. Why wait for him to make a move? Could end up waiting forever.

[FilmGuy93]

The texting reads a little bit dry. I've noticed that you don't ever seem to be giving him an indication that you want him to make a move. You aren't being forward at all

[he-takes-a-part]

haha you would be surprised to know that this same things happens with me and the girl tries harder and harder. The moment you withdraw only then can he get space to see and come. answer my last two questions also

[Anonymous]

Friendzibed? Typical woman, doesn't really give any indication of any feelings towards the guy and she expects him to read her mind 🤣.

Just curious do you ever like this guy? Or do you just want him to like you?

[itsmegrave]

Well, you could start by asking him out. It'll take some courage, but if he says yes, then go from there.

[Kareem_z21]

I don't see he friendzoned you. Like it's still neutral.

[Asker]

I can’t read guys he’s hard to read

[Kareem_z21]

It's still the beginning of the conversation. Get to know him better. Text more

[Asker]

I told him this I'm glad you care about people. That's pretty amazing honestly. You definitely changed my mood for sure 😌 !

[Asker]

And he responded with this “I mean Im sure i can be an ass sometimes but for the most part I care. I’m glad it did! 😊

[Asker]

Good or bad sign

[Kareem_z21]

Still neutral. He can say this comment to his friend.

[Asker]

Well crap how do I shift this

[Asker]

Convo

[Kareem_z21]

Get to know him better. Ask him about his interests. Ask him about his day. Check on him every now and then

[Asker]

Ok cause I’m scared of being like too much right away I can’t tell if he’s trying to friend zone me and o also hope my last text didn’t come off rude by accident

[Kareem_z21]

You can wait for him to start the conversation again. If he did so then he is interested to talk with you

[Asker]

Think so? I don’t understand guys and I really like him but feel like I’m messing it all up

[Kareem_z21]

Yup. Just make him a bit curious for you

[Kareem_z21]

Feel free to PM me if you want to

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Doesn't this then prove that guys and girls really can't be "just friends"?

[Asker]

I don't know I feel like just a friend

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Ya never know unless you try

[StickStickity13]

Doesn't seem like a good or bad sign, seems very neutral

[spartan55]

Seems like a neutral conversation.

[uwotm8e]

Try flirting a tiny bit, see if he bites.

[Asker]

Well I said this last night “We all have our moments but I couldn't imagine you being an ass you have been nothing but nice to me❤️ lol I was about to ask how your night is going 😂😂 but I just saw your TikTok video, Nice dance moves 😉Need some help lol

[Asker]

With the druwall* And he responded with this “Hahaha yup just got finished haha. Could use the help… with both haha

[Asker]

My text after that was “You're so far away for me to go help you! Lol And I'm not sure my dance moves are as good as yours 😂😉

[Asker]

Then the last text was his “Well get walkin haha. Im sure they are better than mine 😂

[Asker]

So I don't know is he flirting lol cause 🤷‍♂️