Why do guys never fall in love with me?

[Anonymous]

So I’m 18 n just graduated hs and I’ve never have a boyfriend before I’ve been in love with guys but never got the same energy back I’ve always just got played or used for sex. Very time I try to take a guy seriously it never works out no matter how much I want it too.

[FilmGuy93]

A lot of that is because of your age; you're very young. But a lot of women much older than you struggle with dating because they don't give men anything to fall in love with. What I mean is that the women don't talk about their hobbies, personal details, their opinions, etc.; and it creates a situation where the guy could be extremely attracted to her physically, but he doesn't fall in love with her because he literally can't since he doesn't know anything about her.

She could have the best personality in the world, but he doesn't know that because she hasn't shared any of that personality with him

[Asker]

Ya I feel like a lot of guys i talk to tend to not be good listens and just talk about themselves so I feel I don’t really get to say much

[itsmegrave]

Because you're not ready for it yet. Don't worry though, one day you will find someone who loves you as much as I do. 🥰 Love You

[Asker]

Aw thank you and ya that’s what a lot of people tell me hopefully I’ll be ready soon

[itsmegrave]

Thank

[EmmaMary]

Possibly your personality and attitude may need looking at.

[Asker]

I don't know I feel like I’m very nice and not rude I stand up for myself and other when I need too and I’m very empathetic

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[Anonymous]

Duh, because you're CHOOSING guys that don't want anything permanent. 🤣

[Asker]

But like why is every guy I choose like this

[Opinion Owner]

It's your preference. Even if it's just a subbconscious choice. Here's a video that'll help explain it. https://youtu.be/Hvysy11716g

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're just picking the wrong guys, but don't give up.

[Asker]

I don't know how is it very guy I pick is the wrong one

[Googlemyahoo]

What you look like?

[Asker]

Um well I’m Latina n I have big eyes n long dark hair and I’m average build n I’m 5’2

[Googlemyahoo]

Why let yourself be used?