Why is it so hard to date in this generation?

[Anonymous]

It’s so tiring dating in this generation. Everyone just wants sex and not a meaningful relationship. It’s honestly so exhausting and draining

[FilmGuy93]

It's hard because no one ever tells people "no." No one wants to have the hard conversations with anyone anymore. There is tremendous value, every once in a while, in someone pulling you aside to let you know when you're fucking up. The problem today is that no one is doing that. We just want to run around telling everyone that they're okay the way they are and that society just needs to accept them while they do dumb shit. Screw that.

No, actually, they aren't okay. They aren't okay, and they never will be until someone sets them straight.

[HighValue]

I agree. Most people do seem to just want sex, or they at least have a very bad unacceptable past/baggage. The majority of people are unfit for a long term partner.

[jennyPuss]

it's hard because most women are too difficult to please. they have a big list of things they want, and they are told if every think on the list doesn't have a check next to it- then they are settling. the problem is, that usually women say things like, he has to make six figures. nope. no compromise. that's the standard. if he makes 99k, not good enough because he's in the 5 figure bracket.

well guess what? something like less than 10% of men make over 100k.

then he's got to be taller than 6ft. well then that shrinks the pool to less than 5%. that's it. less than 5% of ALL men in the country meet your criteria- but you expect these men to be just falling out of the woodwork.

and then you have silly women that have these standards and they don't even know what they are talking about. they just mouth off because it's what their friends say.

i saw a funny video where a girl was asked what the minimum height a guy needed to be to date her. she said 6-4. so then the guy interviewing her said okay, how tall are you? she said she was 5-8. okay. fair enough you want a guy taller than you. so then the guy asked how tall she thought he was, and she said 5-6.

except he was at least 4 inches taller than her. WHAT? ROFL. like, this bitch was stupid. the guy is literally 4 inches taller and that's too short, and you don't even know how tall 6-4 is.

[Guy13]

The truth is nothing is really different except porn, OGF, Insta, Snap etc... have set the bar so high that finding another is a unrealistic process. The women are the same way. Inordinately high expectation and overthinking what is not rather than focusing on What Is. The maturity level in the 20s these days are often like 15-17... especially with the body counters, junk hanging out everywhere and chasing Daddy (40-55) crowd...

It is frightening when the man is more mature than the women and the 8 year older women is stunned while guy is like, finally !

[LazerBean]

My town is pretty small, and there are a lot of more conservative people here. All of my friends who wanted to wait till marriage to have sex are mostly married now. And most of my friends who are sleeping around are still mostly struggling.

[Pixel343]

This...
1. Doesn't answer the question
2. Classifies people as "Married" or "Mostly struggling"
3. Uses the the term "conservative" for some reason

How the heck did you make it to yoda

[LazerBean]

I mean I could try to explain it to you but clearly your comprehension skills are lacking.

[Pixel343]

It's on topic sure.
Not answering the question

[LazerBean]

It does if you put just a tiny bit more critical thinking into it

[Anonymous]

People are to busy worrying about fiances and careers.

[Asker]

Good for them

[Berethor]

Tell them that you wait until marriage.

[Asker]

Are you?

[Berethor]

If a girl is not a ho then she is worth the waiting.

[Asker]

The same should be true for a guy. You can’t expect someone to save themselves for marriage if you’re not doing the same. Essentially a guy not waiting until marriage is also a hoe

[Berethor]

Girls don't tend to care about it as much as guys, because a woman is like a lock, men don't.

[In_Trance]

It's not

[Pixel343]

teach me