Why is it so hard to tell our crush how we feel about them?

[Anonymous]

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[bubblegunnn]

Because we have heart end emotion.. we are afraid to tell our whole feeling to them because of our fearness comes in our mind.. oh what if they r laughing back at me, oh what if they reject me, oh what if they dont like me back, oh what if they are being distant after i tell them my feeling, oh what if its a turn off for them cuz i tell my truly feeling..

Last but not least..
Oh, what if i get hurt.
Ah i better keep my feeling sealed.. be a secret admirer.. so i dont get hurt cuz all of my fearness could be.

But no honey! Get out from ur comfort zone! It could be challenging and lets forget about our fearness!

What if they are likes me back?
See if i have a chance.. yolo.

Its okay to get rejection or hurt.. we are still learning.. but hey, at least i told my genuine feeling for them right? I just untied the rope in my heart..

[RiseofArtemis]

So it's basicaly the same for both genders. We are just taught to risk it and go on if we are rejected.

[bubblegunnn]

Yes bro exactly same no matter what gender is! Its love.. guys and girls feel it.. dont think too much if they dont like us back and get rejected.. life must go on huh

[BlueScorpio]

Cause you don't want to risk being rejected, so you like the idea of being with them and in love. At least in your thoughts you can't run the risk of unrequited love there. But you never know unless you try.

[Sixgunsound]

I think women are so used to getting what they want, at least in the west, that when the possibility exists they might not get it, it becomes more dangerous of a risk, which sets off alarms in the traditionally more risk averse gender.

[Asker]

That sounds sexist. And like BS💩

[Lucifer_01]

we are not scared of what we are going to say, we are scared of "what if she/he will reject me?" "what if he'she will get hurt by me?" or any other questions...
but yeas, we are scared to express our feelings?

[Sorrento-Sun]

Because of the fear of rejection if he doesn't like you in the same way. Rejection hurts. It can lower your self-esteem and confidence

[RiseofArtemis]

Just the same as for guys then.

[Sorrento-Sun]

@RiseofArtemis yeah

[Middleman]

Often because it's a fear of rejection. You think you may lose a friend after you tell them about how you feel.

[Rockstarrrrr]

It's either you think they're out of your league or you already think too much about them and you don't wanna feel so desperate and petty afterwards if they don't see you the same way...

[AsaKyo]

I mean, I just went up to him in art class and asked if he had a girlfriend and that was so easy, sooooo

[RiseofArtemis]

You: Do you have a girlfriend?

Him: No.

You: Now you have.

Success.

[skyee_727]

if theyre ur fren and u express ur feelings but they dont feel the same way about u, the friendship we even formed will also break

[Twalli]

Because if you're rejected it changes the possibility that you may end up together

[EaterPeter]

Fear of rejection. We don't know if they like us back as much we like them.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Deku2009]

Ii know what you mean , wish more people can be straight forward with there feelings

[Fuentes]

Imagine a girl thinking I'm thinking of her when really I'm thinking about Green & Dead Presidents.

[Asker]

WoW. What a useful answer 😒

[Anonymous]

Because the juice generally isn't worth the squeeze.

[FilmGuy93]

We're emotionally invested in their response.

[Rangers]

Because most of us are weak, feminine cowards

[KatherineJ]

Because it feels vulnerable.

[Zolly99999]

Scared of rejection.