My boyfriend said he doesn't want serious stuff?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He said he doesn't want to get married [we date for a 1,6 year, i actually never said I wanted to get married]

Said he doesn't want get serious or go fast

How must i undersnard that

[20yearsolder]

You've been together for 1.6 years, that's taking it really really slow. How much slower can it get?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I dont want to marry him
I dont get wtf he said it

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Im ok being just girlfriend

[20yearsolder]

Then you tell him exactly that, I'm fine with me and your girlfriend. I don't want to marry you either. Or you could make it much politer and say I don't want to get married either.

[20yearsolder]

But I want to rock your world, let me suck your weiner, stick it in my booty. Lol I just had that at this little bit of humor

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Lol thanks

[20yearsolder]

Thanks for being a good sport

[Guy13]

Not grt serious and go slow usually has to do with not having sex ⁉️

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

What?
No he said about maryying me

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I didn't say anything about sex
wtf?

[Guy13]

Don’t cuss me because you don’t write clearly with you one sentence paraphrasing that makes people guess what you trying to say

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Ok
And?

[Zolly99999]

That's tough. . You may have to sit down and have a serious talk with him to figure out what you both want.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

We had it last night
His answer"better times are coming
Now i dont want to , not in the mood, have lots, of stuff on my mind lots of worries

[Zolly99999]

That doesn't sound encouraging.. I guess you will have to make a decision on what you want and what's best for you.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Im tired
He is very sensitive and enters, depression everytime has stress

[Zolly99999]

I don't mean to sound harsh but is something you want for the rest of your life? Sometimes you need to make tough decisions for your own well being and happiness..

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I know

[Zolly99999]

I wish you the best of luck and I hope you figure it out. 😊

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Can i ask smth else... i oosted in anon
But... once he said i give him peace
Is it good or bad?
What he really means

[Zolly99999]

That's a good thing but does he really mean It? The biggest problem is he shouldn't rely on you.. he needs to work on himself before he can be happy.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I think yes he is in peace with me
He is very nervous person and stresses easily and enters depressions easily and looses his shitty easily
So i guess yeah im the calm part of his life

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he has no plans of ever getting married. But it also sounds like he is being honest.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I dont wanna marry him
Im ok with being a girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, that's fine.

[Emilyis]

you need another b/f.

[chocomilk99]

Then he's not ur boyfriend
Call him just friend

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Why?
We have sex sometimes

[chocomilk99]

Then call him friend with benefits

[KrakenAttackin]

Take him at his word.