Do I give off an approachable vibe if you met me at the beach? Would you approach me and talk to me?

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FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

If that's really you, I'd at least walk by & say hello. You're response would probably dictate my next move.

With me, though, the thing is, women tend NOT to be interested in being anything but friends with me so, I'm not very likely to to try to hit on you, unless it looks to me like you WANT me to try. If YOU seem interested, I might continue! (I've had my fair share of liars, too! They SOUND & LOOK like they want me but they're only fucking around and I'll end up the loser, again, in the end so, no thanks! I'm not keen on biting.) These days, thanks in GREAT part, to the many women that have fucked me over, I'm pretty much a hard sell!! I don't like being that way but, I also don't like being lied to and cheated on!! Once bitten, twice shy! Blame it on all your sisters.

TonyV · Accepted Answer

I have a girlfriend so no, I've got no reason to talk to you.

Let's pretend I was single tho, what would even be my ice breaker? I wouldn't comment on your "clothes" that would be weird, no tattoos to ask about, I think it would be pretty clear I only approached cause I thought your body was hot.

So either I'd be playing dumb like I saw you and just reeaally want to come say hi" or I suppose I could fake an interest in your board, ask if I could try riding it as a way to try and show interest but not souly sexual interest.

But like I said I'm taken so I don't have to jump through mental gymnastics to meet people or start conversations anymore, either they talk to me or they leave me alone, either is fine by me.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Not when you are out on a board while the sharks lick their chops below you.

Sheyhoney · Accepted Answer

thats you Fr? You’re such a babe. I would talk to you 🥰

coachTanthony · Answer

Thanks for the tag... you shouldn't of LOL Unless you have bad breath your approachable.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

I don't typically approach girls at the beach (at least not intentionally lol), but in the spirit of the question asked, yeah I suppose I would. You look pretty and outdoorsy. A good combo in a lady! by the way these photos are pretty good considering they were taken on the water, please don't tell me a DSLR was risked getting submerged for these shots? 😳🤣 The camera geek in me needs to know these things lol

BeMuse · Answer

If you throw me on a beach with hundreds of people I tend to ignore most people unless they are my fiends or there is someone specific I want to pickup. On a more relaxed beach with not a lot of people around I tend to be courteous and say hello to everyone and have causal conversation if they aren’t a grump regardless if I am interested in them or not.

PeteBy · Answer

I don't know how to paddleboard and that would be a good starter to talk. Could always ask how you do it and a few tips. Trying to focus on your skills as opposed to your assets.

JSmuve · Answer

It depends on what you're doing. Most women are preoccupied with other things than looking for the attention of men. I was out for a couple hours this morning and the women that I passed all had their headphones on and buried in their phones, ignoring everything around them. So, if you're like that at the beach, then you'll definitely send off unapproachable vibes.

byrdman89 · Answer

It's hard to tell someone's vibe from a still photograph if that's you you're very attractive and a lot of guys might feel a little intimidated approaching you especially standing on a board floating in the ocean with that big long paddle if you were in a bad mood a guy could get hurt :)

magiusX26 · Answer

i dont know. would have to see something of how you are in person instead of still pics. off just the pics, i would not have bothered approaching (not really something i would do anyways but for the sake of this hypothetical lets say i normally would have) due to thinking you were already with someone. now not including the hypothetical part. these days i still would not ecen if you approached me, just not interested in anyone period.

Avicenna · Answer

I'd say you seem approachable, especially if you smile.

Staximus · Answer

If I was walking by and we made eye contact, I would say hello and keep talking unless you started a conversation. Iwouldn't approach you with the intent of asking for your phone number, a date, etc. because we are not in the same league. It's an unrealistic expectation.

MCheetah · Answer

Assuming that's really you, no. You seem like you'd either already have a boyfriend/husband, or only want 10 out of 10 men and have extremely high standards. Especially if you don't smile or look friendly.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

You do look approachable and I would def talk to you. That said I like talking to new people and strike up conversation with randos all the time. Lol.

I genuinely like talking to strangers and making them laugh if I can.

exitseven · Answer

I was sort of shy with girls but maybe I should go over and ask you about the paddle board and see what happens.

Idontknowtoo · Answer

I'm too shy for that shit, so I don't just randomly approach people, if there's another way to start a conversation other than a direct approach then yeah

Hanrej · Answer

I probably wouldn't. Being ten years older and what not.

Grubhub · Answer

I think most of the time I’m unapproachable because I’m shy and always been an introvert but I’m approachable on occasion when I’m in a good mood. I’ve been approached by several ladies, some guys too. No homo

Moonshae · Answer

You have a nice ass but what kinda person do you want to attract at the beach.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Definitely not, Because im way to Shy to approach someone. You are very beautiful, But most of us Guys won't approach you because we are terrified of rejection.

AsaKyo · Answer

Every person is intimidating to me unless they talk to me first  I need help.. lmao

Th3ft · Answer

I would certainly say so! You look like you would be fun to talk to.

slatyb · Answer

You certainly are attractive and you don't appear unapproachable in those pictures.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I hardly have the balls to approach in person. So probably not, would glance over more than anything else.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Difficult to say from pictures alone - Your gestures and glances would be needed. I would probably not approach you due to the hair color. 🤔

dustybiker · Answer

No. I’m surrounded by half a dozen German shepherds and a doberman.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I'd go to the beach for swimming. I don't think that I'll notice you :)

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I'm extremely shy, so I would leave you alone and I wouldn't say a word. But you can be sure that my jaw would drop!

Heolurt · Answer

I would not approach, a guy with my face will be told to fuck off and get called a creep even if I'm not trying to hit on you, it's happened to me So many times so I know from experience that it's pointless to try.

d3n0939 · Answer

You do. But who would approach a woman when she is half naked

Agent_Elflord · Answer

I wouldn’t approach, only because I don’t approach people in general.

jshm2 · Answer

Probably give you a coke (not cock) and sandwich's, as you're clearly underfed.

Sixgunsound · Answer

You’re a bit young for me, and I don’t think the wife would approve😆

Googlemyahoo · Answer

I find it difficult to believe a girl as beautiful as this would be asking that question here.

Mart10 · Answer

I wouldn't randomly approach a complete stranger and start a convo for no reason.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't approach a women in any context not in the era of MeToo where it is routine for men to be rounded up and shot into mass graves for minor violation of the statutes

Light909090 · Answer

No you look like you would ignore anybody who approaches you

ShadezMcgee · Answer

You seem friendly, so sure. Would probably approach and talk to you if I were single.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah you are a pretty lady, I would definitely say hello or good morning, but I would not pester for longer unless you showed interest in talking to me.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I wouldn't approach, just seems way too weird to approach someone I know nothing about.

Jerre · Answer

Yes, I would approach you and talk with you. Just don’t pay attention to the bulge in my swimsuit.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Yeah I definitely would. You are very pretty

TheAfrikan · Answer

I would stare first of all n study your moves n body language.

Anonymous · Answer

No. You’d just hop on Reddit and complain to all the feminists about how you just wanted to paddle board but some awful man bothered you.

9inchestrong · Answer

This post gives off the narcissistic vibe, so no. Narcissistic vibe harshes my mello.

BubbaTech · Answer

Sure, once you're on dry land, or wet land, just not on the water.

controlleddecent · Answer

yes of course you are beautiful and probably have a lot of guys talking to you

Frontard · Answer

I'm too shy to be a good guy to get the job done

es20490446e · Answer

I don't generally approach strangers in that fashion.

Anonymous · Answer

Your approachability as all women comes down to one thing. How much effort you want to put forth.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah but the issue is that i don't like people, only my girlfriend who'd be there with me and I'm not into threesomes

888theGreat · Answer

I would say hello and hint to see if you are liberal or not. Weather.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

You look nice probably wouldn't aproch you because people go beach to relax. Leave people do that.

Anonymous · Answer

i don't really go to the beach to socialize, i plop myself down onto the sand and relax in the sun to hopefully be left alone

Danger345 · Answer

I think you do and I would talk to you but you wouldn’t like where the conversations lead

Danger1213 · Answer

Yes I would talk to you but you wouldn’t like some of the conversations that lead to things

ISendNuttVidz · Answer

You are so fucking hot. I’d love to send you a video

Twalli · Answer

Probably not as I don't approach anyone on the beach

JohnK123 · Answer

Yeah I’d say hi

Anonymous · Answer

You are so pretty, so I probbably wouldn't approach to You becouse I would stressed. But I am honest 😀

OlderThanILook · Answer

I would never talk to you

SupremeWarlord · Answer

I would 100% pussy out, you're just too beautiful

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