Why is it that when a man needs his woman to be there for him she's not but when a woman needs her man to be there for her he is there?

[Jessejames20]

[Haha456]

what you're saying is complete bs.

if that was true, how do you explain over 90% of single parents being single moms?

sounds more like men turn their backs on women and their kids.

most single moms don't even receive child support.

[Jessejames20]

I appreciate your opinion and yes I do agree with you that single parents let alone single moms have a hard time but me and my daughter's mother are together she is my fiance we do live in two different places at this time but that is due to choice because I work 4 hours from home and I do go home when I am off and it kills me every time I have to fucking leave to go to work and know that I'll be gone for at least 2 weeks but the time I am there I am with her and my daughter and if I wasn't with them I have no problem paying child support and not just that I would also as I do now have a savings account for my daughter for college and not every man can do that for their child whether it's their choice not to or because they're unable to don't always look down on a man because women can just be as bad if not worse

[Haha456]

overall, men as a gender are worse than women. Take a look at crime statistics, men commit over 90% of crimes including murders, rapes, child molestation, burglary, gang related activities. Out of over 90% of single parents that are mothers, vast majority of them do not even receive child support.

sure, there are bad women out there too. but not nearly as much as bad men.

[boredgal]

that means he's just wasting his time, never settle for less, guys and gals.

[Jessejames20]

Thank you for your opinion its helpful

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Sounds like a specific person or a huge generalization because I don’t have that issue.

[slatyb]

I don't know about that. Fathers are a lot more prone to leaning their children.

[Guy13]

Perhaps, she does not know how to be there in a way that fits you…that you can identify with?

[Guy13]

Does she try? Do you express what you need? Context?

[Jessejames20]

I can see that maybe she doesn't know how but I've expressed myself quite a bit I have explained to her the things I do for her and I wish that she would do the same but it just hasn't been that way

[AsaKyo]

Now you know good and well that's not always true

[Jessejames20]

Not always true yes but more so lately well honestly a lot more lately

[Iron_Man]

That’s up to the female not everybody’s the same

[Anonymous]

I have never experienced that.

[Jessejames20]

Well I hope you never do

[SmokinAces2000]

You must just be messing with the wrong women

[Jessejames20]

That could possibly be true but honestly she's the only woman that I ever really truly love

[Je4h5ht]

Sounds like a generalization

[Jessejames20]

True it could be a generalization but I honestly don't believe it is and I know I'm not delusional things have just been getting worse and worse but yet I'm still there for her whenever she needs it