Why do men feel the need to be needed by women?

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Nik1hil · Accepted Answer

As a women you feel the needed to be needed by your Kids especially if the kid is 1yr - 16 Yr old.

Imagine if your kid after birth started walking and sleeping on its own, not crying, just showing up to feed from you without, No emotions.

Imagine if your kid is born self-dependent, your kid doesn't let you hold it, kiss it, respond to your Quirks and ignores you..

Man protect and provide for women. Women nurture Children, that's how it works, the kind of unconditional Love you have towards you Kids. That is exactly the kind of love we men have towards our wife, that is how insanely intensly and strongly MEN LOVE THEIR WOMAN.

7vices · Accepted Answer

Probably the biological wiring of being a provider in the form of edible protein... or actually just protein. Also the biological role of hunter/warrior/protector that males used to fill. I firmly believe that a lot of basic primal instincts heavily influence our behavior to this day

DarkWinterNights · Answer

When boys are younger they get attention, validation and care from adults and their parents, similar to girls. But when they hit adulthood, that all dries up and you’re basically expected to sink or swim. Society doesn’t care about you unless your hard labor benefits society. When men are unappreciated they become apathetic, unproductive and self destructive.

When a man has a woman that is loyal to him, and trusts him to take care of her, it gives his life purpose and meaning. he strives to do better and as a whole society improves.

Lionman95 · Answer

I think because guys are unsure or even insecure of how important they are in a woman´s life. Therefore what I think nearly all guys that are emotionally healthy cherish is if a woman acknowledges what he does. It gives a guy a sense of security that he´s doing the right thing and not wasting time on her or even worse do something she doesn´t even want.
Guys therefore need this because we can´t read a woman´s body language.

MrKinktastic · Answer

If men are insecure, being shown they are valued/accepted and desired in an objective way (say sex or a date) counteracts their internal narrative that they are useless/worthless.

There’s also an element of wanting to feel attractive by seeing other being attracted to you.

MrOracle · Answer

Men, especially in a relationship, are expected to make (sometimes incredible) sacrifices, including potentially facing death, to protect the woman we're with. If we don't feel needed by her, why in the world would we make these sacrifices? Why would we do anything for her?

mommymommymommy · Answer

Primal. The male species, no matter if he has a girlfriend or wife or whatever, we're built to want to please the female species. Go watch any Female domme and they'll basically explain the same thing.

https://www.youtube.com/@bgonebad/videos

She explains a lot of stuff, about it

lightbulb27 · Answer

probably various reasons. It feels powerful to be respected and desired. needy though... that comes from lower self worth, possibly momma issues.

Anonymous · Answer

Because women need men to need to be needed by women, otherwise needing women to need men would need them to need the needings necessary to be able to need men. Hope that helps 😂

Dargil · Answer

It is part of the validation of being a man. Sexuality also validates a man.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I don't feel the need to be needed by a woman cause I know that I am needed good men are always needed by women and no matter how much they say they don't need men they do just like men need woman

ColHathi · Answer

Same reason women feel the need to be needed by men, I would assume.

Grond21 · Answer

We all want to feel needed. To be significant to someone who matters

shades777 · Answer

Don't need to feel nothing, men and women "need" men because society would literally collapse but because your in America you can't see it as well as in other countries. That means men are doing a damn good job keeping the world going

Siri137 · Answer

I'm not so sure they do. Are you sure about this?

Juxtapose · Answer

Because of evolution and reproduction. For me it feels like an emotional need that utterly validates me, makes me feel loved and safe in her arms. It's my greatest desire, to have true love.

In_Trance · Answer

For the same reason women feel the need to be needed by men

Billlewis · Answer

I need to be used by the woman I'm serving, that's for sure.

EaterPeter · Answer

Coz we had enough of neglect and fulfilling others needs we have needs to 😉

slatyb · Answer

I don't. I want to be wanted.

Pedhx · Answer

Because it’s an evolutionary thing. If she doesn’t need us she’s more masculine and independent which is repulsive

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe it's the way we evolved. We've been provider's. We've taken care of others.

clampfan101 · Answer

I don’t. I just want to do my fair share.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Hell no. Who said that.

pethouse · Answer

Everyone just wants to be wanted

007kingifrit · Answer

that's a weird and simple question, biology?

Alex8736 · Answer

insecurity

justabuddy · Answer

At one time yes, it was nice.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Manwhore

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