I am confused on what I should date men or women?

[Anonymous]

Nobody wants to hear it but it is true usually guys only want sex and will keep you around if you allow them to take a advantage of you. It seems like people want what they can't have and I don't want to be this crazy chick in this video. It may be the same problems for lesbians as well.

[ohsheeT]

Well you can't just say all guys are this way or all guys in that way because they're not same with girls you can't say they're one way or another way each individual is going to be each individual and they're going to treat you the way they treat you because of who they are you need to know the difference whether it's good or bad and then make the choice yes or no either be with him or not be with him but we are not all the same at all whether you're a girl or a guy

When you become who you want to become by having the confidence within yourself to know the difference on how somebody's acting or what they say or what they're doing learn how to read people that will tell you everything that will tell you then and yourself exactly who they are love yourself first have the confidence in yourself first everything else will get easier

[EricMills09456]

Looks like a good movie. Too bad they showed damn near the whole story in the preview.

They should make one about a guy who gets revenge on his cheating ex-wife, but the feminists would probably cancel it.

[Asker]

Not like men aren't misogynist?

[EricMills09456]

I think your whole problem of not knowing who to date is probably about your own issues. Yes, some guys only want sex, but not all guys are brain dead drones (Fuck boys), just like not all women are cheating sluts. You just have to take a leap of faith and at least try to get to know people so you can weed out the incompatible ones.

[Anonymous]

If worrying about getting hurt or used dictates which sex you date then you’re going about it all wrong. Anyone is capable of doing you wrong, in fact you may be more disappointed dating women because you went into that situation thinking you wouldn’t face similar trials that you do with men, and get the exact same thing.


It’s true that a woman could be a more relatable partner for obvious reasons, but some lesbians (especially studs, butch, etc) step so far into their male mentality and ego, they will treat you just the same. The moral of this is, anyone can put you through hardships and trauma, you just have to decide who is worth hurting for.

[FilmGuy93]

You're going to run into crazies of both genders, until you develop a healthy sense of personal boundaries.

[clampfan101]

There are plenty of guys that aren’t like that at all.

[Asker]

Where from planet Mars?

[clampfan101]

If so, I’m a Martian. lol

[Asker]

Probably talking about the ugly dudes I know you aren't talking about anyone I'm attracted to

[clampfan101]

You want guys to be nice while assuming all nice guys are ugly? Good luck with that…

[Asker]

Because they usually are

[clampfan101]

You and I know very different people.
What about me in particular? I’m nice. Am I ugly?

[Asker]

You're old usually guys my age that like me I don't like how the way they look.

[clampfan101]

I’m 33. It says you’re 25-29. Are you lying about your age, or just super picky?

[Asker]

I'm 26 and 33 is still too old

[clampfan101]

Not too old to have an opinion.
Whatever. This conversation is getting nowhere. Just know I’m trying to be nice, regardless of your insults to me.

[Asker]

I don't know how that is an insult if I don't want a man over 5 years older than me I know how men are so I have to be picky.

[clampfan101]

You misunderstood what I meant by that. Just forget the conversation happened.

[Smegskull]

If the men you are dating only want you for sex you are dating out of your league. The men who would see you as more than a sexual conquest are probably the ones you think you are too good for.

[Luckycharms12]

Guys want sec at first but feelings get involved too

[Anonymous]

You certainly sound confused, yes.