Why are single men lonelier than single women? (Page 2)

[WhiteBoyChill]

Its because most single women still have female friends.

[Anonymous]

My dad had bird, he told me that if there is only male bird in the cage, he dies, but female bird can live as long as she can be even without a mate.

[Andrew2128]

Maybe me and you could be in the cage together

[Anonymous]

The simple (and correct) answer is that single men are not lonelier than single women.

[Anonymous]

If they're so lonely then why tf won't any of my classmates ask me out?

[ZenJen444]

Because you're desperate

[ZenJen444]

And they're not attracted to you

[Asker]

They probably have. Or maybe to many other girls until they stop seeing the point in asking someone out.

[Opinion Owner]

I wish they have. I'm not that desperate, otherwise I would've found a guy on Tinder by now.

[242plusInfinity]

@asker that's exactly it man. I use to approach girls for fun, not for dates or sex. I just liked to see if I could grow as a person. When it comes to actual approaching for dating... Eh I've learned to only do it when I know for a fact the girl likes me. Otherwise it's like 1 and a million. Now I know it's really not one and a million. I know that it's because I never worked on my social skills like the older guys told me to. I can't spend my time chasing girls. There is something bigger that I want and If I dont get that I won't be happy nor good for anybody. I won't let myself be happy.

[dophix]

Because they want a model body

[nickaboy]

We are lonely but because we have to fight for a greeting back without getting called creepy we pick. Someone that is worth the battle

[Anonymous]

Because men will probably forever be expected to make the first move and do the pursuing

[dustybiker]

You aren’t a woman. You can’t know that.

[Asker]

You aren't a man either so you don't know what being a man is like. There's a link I sent and many people making discussions about it

[JosyJosy]

Cause men throw themselves at women.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What does throwing yourself at a person even mean?

[JosyJosy]

@TheSpaceGnome That we just need to exist and guys will come at you.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Lol yeah right, that only works for model level attractive women, and most of the guys doing that are hump n dump types.

[Asker]

If you wanna blame men for having a stronger sex drive that makes us want women more, then how come you don't blame women for having lesser sex drive? So yeah it's just easier to blame it on the opposite sex.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most of the women i've met have higher sex drives than most men, to the point where they don't even care about looks, or even sharing common interests/hobbies, all they care about is sex and having babies and playing housewife.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can't even count the number if bland, hobbyless, boring sluts i've turned down that I didn't even make an effort to communicate with.

[TheSpaceGnome]

of* not if

[TheSpaceGnome]

And I'm not even a model, just a regular guy.

[Rangers]

Why wouldn't they? Women don't throw themselves at men, so men have to take the role of approaching women themselves

[JosyJosy]

@Rangers idd yep

[hafinjun]

What makes you think they are?

[Subarugirl]

I’m gonna guess because he’s projecting how he feels onto everyone else

[Asker]

@Subarugirl I sent a link that proved it.

[Subarugirl]

You shared a YouTube video of someone who shares your opinion… the only thing it proves is that there is at least one other person out there who shares it.

[Asker]

@Subarugirl And it wouldn't really be made if it werent true. Look at how much agrees vs how much disagrees

[Asker]

@Subarugirl at least one you say? Well there are hundreds of thousands who do so thats saying something.

[Subarugirl]

Lol right because everything people put on YouTube is true……. Yes hundreds of thousands is more than one.

[Asker]

@Subarugirl You don't even have anything to disprove what I said. So yeah I go with what a youtube content would say over a random karen like you

[Subarugirl]

Lol that’s obvious

[Asker]

@Subarugirl Obvious that you're not being truthful here. So yeah, you yourself didn't provide any data but just making assumptions with anyone, it's hard to take you seriously.

[Subarugirl]

Says the dude who thinks a random YouTube video is “proof”.
Here is an actual article written by a psychologist on the matter….
www.google.com/.../the-rise-lonely-single-men%3Famp

[Asker]

@Subarugirl You're contradicting yourself when you litterally just said "I’m gonna guess because he’s projecting how he feels onto everyone else" So that's not how I feel but a lot do. So your actual point is?

[Asker]

@Subarugirl And by the way, that youtube video is actually basing it on that article you're using. So your article betrays you.

[Subarugirl]

Actually that article supports my whole stance

[Asker]

Because you're not reading your whole stance that's why.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Women can always get dick. Men gotta pay.

[Rania05]

Hello? It's men who made it this way, women in general aren't as fond of sex as men, men need it more and it just occasional thing for most women, some can even live perfectly fine without it.

[Asker]

@Rania05 Yeah blaming it on men is the easiest thing to do. by the way, someone already made sense here. "In general women have a larger support system of friends, especially after a long term relationship." As what TroyDT said

[CuriousMufuxka]

@Rania05 Women are as fond of sex, they just have the twat as a tool. With that they often pine over dick they can't get over dudes that would spend a plenty.

[Rania05]

@CuriousMufuxka
Well, probably some does, but biologically speaking women aren't as in demand of sex as men

[Rania05]

Sir Asker, women friendship are sentimental this we tolerate trust issues much lesser, it's both deep and fragile. While men friendship are more activity based thus less intimate and more transactional. Women tend exchange secrets and feelings more with their friends and that gives them less distance in their privacy so I think it's perfectly normal women gets more support from their small circle of friends than men.

[CuriousMufuxka]

@Rania05 You just proved my OP :)

[Asker]

And does that even have anything to do with men making it that way when even women don't even try to take men seriously when they open up? There had been experiment showing that a man crying in public versus a woman crying in public, girls think he is weird while girl supported each other and it was another man who comforted the guy. So think again before you say men made it that way or maybe what you're trying to say is it is our fault that we are just born as a guy that we lack value in our society

[Rania05]

How did you even concludes it this way? Nevermind, I never devalued men.
And our core topic at beginning was about why women gets sex easier. I didn't even want to talk about, because I'm actually 17 and a virgin (had been messing with my email when registering and made myself 20 years older)
Men and women aren't the same but they're equally important to society.
Of course girls supported each other, if girls doesn't lend hands to each other who would when their own gender mates abandoned them. And like you said the guy was comforted by a man, it's a problem between men don't obligate women who aren't his relative or friend to comfort a crying man.

[Asker]

You can say you don't devalue men but that doesn't change the average. And it's not just even about a crying man but women asking for help gets more help from anyone than a man asking for help.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Because Hyundai Sonata

[Anonymous]

They aren't... it's propaganda.

[dophix]

I always wonder that.

[Apologies456]

Who really knows

[Hotboy_booblover]

Because women have boobs

[TheSpaceGnome]

They aren't.

[katestar]

Yes. They are.

[ZenJen444]

Speak for yourself lol 😆. I get approached regularly yet decline

[katestar]

Really?

[ZenJen444]

Yes, where are you under a rock? Not being rude but men approach women regularly

[katestar]

I agree with you

[Fuentes]

Simps

[In_Trance]

they're not