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Many single women and girls today care about these things and these things alone — having an OnlyFans to generate more money by selling nude pics and nude videos even if that means old ass men know what your entire body looks like, their careers, getting attention from guys, that’s it. That gives them satisfaction but it will actually lead to major heartbreak and regret down the road. Young women will assume it’s great but it won’t be. A woman’s dignity and pride will be stripped if she sold nudes of herself she will regret it as she ages, when it comes to employment all it takes is a bad recession to be humbled and that a job is fragile in this unpredictable economy. Women live for the moment, they don’t plan for the future. To any woman who read this and is offended, I know this is GAG and the typical female response is something like this…
ohhh so you don’t care about women’s rights? Sooo you’re an angry bitter single, ohhh sooo you’re a weird lonely simp. When I read comments like that from females on here I truly wonder if it’s a guy posing as a female or an 11 yr old girl posing as a 21 yr old girl or just a really immature girl.
In the long run women will be more miserable as they get older and are single. Females live off validation and attention.
If the validation and attention is based on looks, looks fade and life isn’t about pussy 24/7 so what else is there to offer. I’d rather see world war 3 start tomorrow then pursue a girl who has interest in me. Because I know pursuing a female is a fucking headache, ain’t worth my time.
Men are unhappier and the reason why it seems that women are unhappier yes because they tend to be more open about it than men which is what made the article you sent conclude. The reason behind this is men are more competitive so they prefer working alone to pursue who they want. Women in general tend to share feelings with each other and talk about their crushes and advising each other. It's not that because women are just better than men at taking care of each other. It is a biological instinct because multiple men sharing a single woman doesn't give benefits as much as multiple women sharing a single man because of the fact that women can only get impregnated one at a time while a man can improve get multiple women at a time so it's easier to share a man then to share a woman and that's what makes men more competitive and lonelier.
*A man can impregnate multiple women are a time
Article?
That itself is self-explanatory unless you want an article about how many times a woman can only give birth in her life and how many women can a man impregnate at a time. If there are 100 guys and only 1 girl, do you think she can get pregnant with 100 babies and give birth to 100 babies at a time?
Oh by article you meant the sources i mentioned in my update?
And no, I think it's the reverse of what you said: "men seem unhappier because they're more open about it and women are less open about being unhappy". But it's about the same for both.
Actually you have any other way around in your quotation marks. I was saying men are less open about their loneliness than women. And if it really is the same for both then the rate of suicide would have been the same either
Suicide is a result of far more other things than just loneliness lol. There are responsibilities, stress, finances, etc. More of a man's problem than a woman's. They make the world run.
Everything doesn't revolve around women as you might think.
... and for that reason, if there are more unhappy male singles than unhappy female singles, it definitely doesn't mean that "men want women more than vice versa" lol
Except loneliness is still a factor. There is also stress and responsibilities involved if a man is shamed for being single which happens to men more than women which makes them unhappier and since when did I say men want women more than vice versa?
I really love how you ask that question but you disagree anyways. Your point asking?
I wanted to know just how delusional many people are here.
That's why I asked LOL
Men are not only shamed for being single. Human beings are. And yes, what else would the fact that "single men are unhappier" mean? Wouldn't that mean that most people think that men want women more than vice versa?
Notice the poll results: men are 50/50 split on YES and NO. But almost twice as many women selected YES than the ones that selected NO.
Manipulative and immature and sexist.
Men are naive and stupid.
At least on this site lol.
It's not even that men wants women more than vice versa. Men craves love, companion and support more than women because women had already been more supported by the government and society. The sympathy gap is real. Growing up, men are told to man up and told to do things alone. Social experiments prove it. https://youtu.be/o1WNQ9YCpto these women thought it was weird for a guy to break down but not a girl https://youtu.be/gk5er_Ar4hc another contributing factor to their loneliness. What you're only thinking is men are just more desperate for women when there is actually more to that. Really so what do you expect from a person who is actually given less food than the other? You think they are less hungrier than the other one?
Oh yeah we are simply delusional just because we just agree with you and we are manipulative, immature and sexes because of it without even thinking about other's perspective. Your question has double meaning that's why your poll is mixed
en.m.wikipedia.org/.../Women-are-wonderful_effect Another contributor of for men's loneliness and their constant urge for love which is why loneliness is a big factor. How about you also think that men wants TO LOVE more than women? Also because often times people who just happy with their life tend to be the less empathetic ones. Now tell me i have no source. Your source is basically just "we are delusional if you disagree with you" like that's your only source
I get everything you said completely. But just because women get more support from the government is irrelevant from my perspective. It doesn't mean they crave any less "love","companionship", "support", physical/emotional intimacy, and sharing of interests from a man. And that was the reasoning behind my post.
And how do we know the people answering YES have your perspective? Lol
Maybe it's irrelevant for you because you don't realize that support is what make someone happier and more comfortable. I am not even using the argument argumentum ad populum which is just basically depending on how many people agreeing with me but i'm going straight with logic.
It's all a matter of perspective. I do get your point though.
If it's a matter of perspective then I thought it'd be delusional to have a claim against your views.
Do men want women more than vice versa or is it equal? ↗
And that post (which I also created) proves my point of how other people are perceiving male singles.
Lol
So you also think men want women more than vice versa?
What does being unhappier single have to do with men wanting women more than men? But I can point out that in nature, women are the more emotional and nurturing of the 2 which what men craves after being neglected a lot of times so yeah that's what men look for which women tend to have. I don't think either wants more than the others. It just seem like men want women more because of that.
Ok so you disagree and so do I yes. But sadly, the common public disagrees. Probably a bunch of manipulative b****es and naive men.
That's argumentum ad populum. If your only reason is because most people agrees then you didn't even know how those people agreed. Also because there are a lot of ignorant people in this world
Oh yes definitely. Ignorance is very common. Sadly.
Questions are all over the place.
Opinions are all over the place.
There is only one TRUTH.
Except not every truth is always known. I don't think you've actually met all men and women in this world for you to confirm.
Oh by the way you wanted a general source about it? Here's actually one that agrees with my claim www.myrelash.com/.../single-heterosexual-men-are-lonelier-than-ever-studies-show-and-men-are-not-having-it except we just have a different reasoning.
Yes I never meant to imply I knew TRUTH lol.
Yeah you don't mean to imply you know the truth except everybody are delusional when they don't agree with you. Action speaks louder than words
Everyone doesn't disagree with me wtf? Only the manipulative women and the naive men. It should be common sense to understand their intentions, TRUTH aside.
I said "When they don't agree with you" read again. And you don't think you sound manipulative to call anyone delusional for disagreeing with you which makes it ironic. You have nothing else to prove except to just say "Common sense" to your claims. I can also say i disagree with you because it's common sense to not agree with you. Just like that.
So you say a man selecting YES has the same meaning as a woman selecting YES?
Lol
Yeah and how is it any different if I'm actually a woman using the same empirical data like the experiments and the articles I presented? I don't view things in your perspective.
Ok yes this can be correct. But how about the other poll?
Men want women more?
That different question, id say it's about equal. I don't go around survey all men and women in the world
I'd say the Women answering YES on that pole are being manipulative lol.
Which has nothing to do with me. They may be just basing it on the experience and also men saying no can also mean the same thing. Women will say yes and men will say no and it's not a surprise
Yes I just want to find a woman that doesn't think this way 😢.
Then you're just desperate looking for validations.
No not desperate at all. Looking for compatibility. I do think that most women don't think the way most of the lonely loser women on this site.
Overall, back to the original topic. I believe it's dependent on the person and not your gender.
Well that's still your opinion however. Because it's what you "think"
Hard question, because men generally are not open to discussing how they feel, they've been conditioned since young age to hide feelings and to show upset or unhappiness goes against everything that is what it takes to be a 'man'...
When a man breaks down, people will look away embarrassed, when a woman cries everyone says 'there, there, poor thing'
So your question is are men unhappy to be single than women? Some may, some may not and some just aren't bothered.
The suicide rate is highest in young men between ages 19 to 25, I don't think it's to do with being single, the factor could be loneliness.. Even if they weren't single, they have got to a point in their life that they were so unhappy in their situation that they thought the only way out was by removing themselves from the world
There are issues which are gender specific. Yes I agree with and already know about the difference between loneliness and singlehood. It's all about your life experiences, opportunities and mindset. And because men and women generally experience life differently, they will have different opportunities and mindsets. Gender specific differences I'm talking about.
Again I'll go back to some may be unhappy being single, some may not be unhappy being single and some aren't bothered. Men like women are individuals and each have their own personalities, needs and wants. The only reason we don't have a true figure on the unhappiness of men singledom is back to point they are conditioned not to be open about how they feel. Can you or any of the men here seriously admit anonmously the last time you admitted how you felt to someone you know?
Individuals yes. But I was referring specifically to gender exclusive differences. Also I must add one important point: It could be that men answering YES are all being honest or naive, whereas women answering YES? Ulterior motives? Some or most could be lies? Wanting the opposite gender is a form of weakness? Manipulative tactics? This could be no different from women answering a question about being visual or not.
And that is just one example of how men and women are different. A woman answering YES is different from a man answering YES.
Exactly 😂
From my experience guys love being single and women feel unloved and that they need to be attached to someone
Wtf? Read my reply above.
I meant "read my reply to the other answer".
I'm just saying what I've experienced the women I know who are single seem a lot sadder than my single guy friends... maybe they're lying on those poles I don't think polls are accurate anyway like who are they polling
Lol only God knows all
If that's your belief
Opinion
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Yes, a majority of single guys tend to be unhappier than single women. A woman can even stay without sex during months or even several years and despite feeling like losing an important part of her private life (sexual pleasure) she would never feel like failing to accomplish a social standard. On the contrary, a single man who stays without sex for months or even years, would feel both: losing his private life and also failing to accomplish the social standards expected by a man in society. It is indeed a dramatic situation for many men in this condition.
It has nothing to do with sex. Both men and women desire physical intimacy or emotional intimacy or both. Tolerance depends on the person and not your gender. You're 29 years old.
Well, yes, I am focused on sexless single men/women. The single people who have sex, they usually don't need that kind of intimacy you suggest, because they often don't look for that stuff. However, the sexless single people suffer a lot, because they actually want intimacy and the lack of sex makes them desperate. But guys suffer even more, because social norms indicate that males should be more sexually active than females, while females off course have the same needs but not the social pressure. I am 29, yes, and I'm talking from my own experience, because between 22 and 26 years old I was one of those people: I broke with my ex, stayed single and after a great disappointment I was feeling like shit. And you probably have no idea how a person does feel under those circumstances, neither how common is for both men and women (even the young ones) to pass through phases like this one. Your moral decreases, your self-confidence disappears, you feel unworthy to be loved and you lack the physical intimacy that distinguishes friendship from a romantic relationship.
I think something important to keep in mind here, is that it is way harder for a guy to not be single than a woman. It's easier for women to find a boyfriend. This results in a lot of single men, being single whilst perhaps wanting to not be single. But with women, more often than not, they will be single by choice, whilst being perfectly capable of finding a suitable man in a relatively short period of time. So when this goes on long enough, the man will sooner have feelings of inadequacies resulting in a more significant unhappiness, whilst women get the peace of mind and rest that they yearned for.
Modern day feminists would like to believe that single men are unhappy, but lets break this down shall we. Men have always been known to prefer sex, without commitment. Todays dating market, is filled with promiscuous women, making it easy for men to have sex with multiple women, without the need for intimacy which most men aren't really ready for anyway. So men are getting laid more, and having to commit less, because women are more hyper sexual than ever. Its a win for men, not a loss. Perhaps women are happy with this new dynamic as well, I don't know, but I can tell you that men on average are very happy with this new dynamic.
I’m a single man and I couldn’t be more happier,
I don’t have anyone bossing me about or nagging at me I can do what I want when I want with no hassle I can spend all my money on shit i don’t need with no one to moan at me I can go to bed when I want wake up when I want I can do anything I want and no moaning misery to stop me,
If the ex has taught me anything it’s that I’m happier alone, being with her made me feel low 24/7 I felt unloved and unwanted she hit me lied to me and about me and just made me feel shit in general but now she’s gone I’m 100% happier.
I have been single for long periods of time by choice.
I could come and go as I pleased, buy what I wanted to, providing I had the money for it, travel, hey it's a nice day/weekend so I would throw the stuff on the bike and off I would go.
I never had an issue getting laid, had my looks, money life was good.
I have been in long term relationships and those were fine too.
Most of the time it was with very independent women, that way I still had some freedoms to come and go.
Plus, for a while my job took me away from home, and one still does today.
I remarried a few years ago and life is good.
I did not need to be with someone to feel complete, or worried that I would never find someone.
Things just had a way of working out.
Don't statistically know that, but being single isn't for the immense majority of people.
Very few people in this world can be satisfied being single for the rest of their life.
We humans need to be with someone. It's the natural order of life from literally the beginning with Adam and Eve.
I've heard that God Himself said "The most important thing in your life is a spouse". Having mentioned that, I can only imagine the number of singles that pretend to be happy lol. There are also those unhappy in a relationship due to incompatibilities and other issues, and I think happy relationships are rare.
I've also heard...
"Being alone felt good. But it never felt right"
... and so it's the advantages and disadvantages that the quote is attempting to explain. I think you will be making sacrifices either during singlehood or couplehood. Can't have everything.
Unmarried women live longer on average then married women. Unmarried men live shorter lives on average then married men. Most people on dating apps are men.
Well that either means men are the problem or women just need/want men less both sexually and emotionally. And I'm willing to best the reason is the former lol.
I say this because there is a difference between experienced singles and singles lol. I believe inexperienced single men and women are equally happy or unhappy.
Interesting yes. I think part of it is like what Trevor Noah said. I’m a girl, I can sleep with (as in next to) a friend, cuddle with them, cry in their arms, be held by them without being seen as gay and therefore inferior (I don’t think any of this is true it’s just how we’re treated.) where as men can usually only do that with a woman they’re in a sexual or romantic relationship with. It isn’t just sex and romance they crave it’s intimacy and companionship.
Nah that's irrelevant I believe. A woman cuddling or being intimate with other women is all the more reason to want a man LOL. No amount of nurture could change that.
I like being held by women it makes me feel safe I feel sorry that men aren’t allowed the same freedom with other men.
Nah I'm sure you're gay and no... gay men do that too: cuddle with each other without feeling "unallowed".
I was referring to straight men and women. Not homosexuals.
I am gay! But I cuddle with straight women friends in a not sexual manner.
RavVid, yeah facts. Me and my friends with benefits just decided to be friends because we realized it was the intimacy we really like and the sex isn’t key.
Talk about a competitive "Girls rule, boys drool" mindset. It's no wonder women are more miserable than men.
I compared the two like you asked. How is it an example of that mindset? Are women more miserable then men?
RavVid, I’ve missed it too at times
RavVid, facts. Love pet parents.
I think it depends on the person. I was plenty happy single. In fact. I was single on purpose for Years after a particularly bad relationship. I ended it and decided to focus on my self and my career and my hobbies. I traveled, hung out with friends when ever I wanted. No having to worry about anniversary dates and shit. The freedom was addicting. Which ended up being a downside of my plan. As now I actually find it hard to stay in a relationship because I got so used to being free LOL.
Going no. Everytime I feel unhappy that I'm not in a relationship, I think back on my previous one and feel better. Single women can't handle that life as well besides overindulging themselves in their career.
I doubt it. The difference between men and women is in the "numbers" and it is vast depending on the topic. For example, if you search keywords: 🔍"suicide never had a girlfriend" or "cry, sad, depressed when I see cute/beautiful girls" numerous results show up with men claiming to be in those situations. But then search 🔍 the opposite and I see ZERO results regarding women. There are also other scenarios I've come across on the WWW that separate men and women in terms of life experiences, which are too exhausting to list all here. Either it means there are more men on the WWW or women are just not voicing similar issues lol.
Also, there was a pole earlier on this site asking "Do singles get sad/depressed seeing couples"? More women than men selected NO, while much more men than women selected YES.
Either women are manipulative liars or everyone is being honest lol
I must add that there is a difference between "experienced singles" and "singles". Maybe it's so that more women have bad experiences with men than men have with women.
Well as an experienced might as well been married man 3 times spanning over 9 years.. Couples meet other couples and when they split you get to to hear all about it. No polls or g@g search. In person! Trust me women become more miserable, they just hide it better.
The only question that matters now is "why" lol. Why hide?
Because it works! Women are craftier than men and can hide their true emotion under a facade of everything is ok. I'll get support everywhere. After awhile they break and it's not a recommended place to be around.
Crazy world lol
Yes. Scientifically proven.
Because a lot of men just don't know how to take care of themselves and are unconsciously looking for a second mom.
That is true I also saw that study. Sadly men of today are not being taught how to be alone and in fact base their value of getting someone. While women have always been taught how to take care of the basic needs of a house and today they are told that getting into a relationship is a want not a need.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 care to share that study? Cause in my experience young women these days don't know shit about taking care of the basic needs of a house. And they go around patting themselves on the back for being able to hold down a job and pay their bills, like it's an impressive feat.
@Tyrael There are tons of outlets that talk about the study, but it always requires to create an account so here are two outlets that talk about it.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy
www.foxnews.com/.../...e-longer-happier-survey.amp
I don't take fox news seriously, but I googled the author they mentioned and others talk about him too.
See also on PsychologyToday "The rise of lonely single man" by Greg Matos. Can't find the original, but is the most referenced.
@_Soren_ it's not that we are stupid, it's more due to the education we give boys and girls while growing up. This generation of men still had a conservative education while, meaning they are not taught to do any house work and told to build a family. On the other hand women were taught that a relationship and family are an option, not the goal.
@_Soren_ society has a great deal of influence on us. The way we are taught and what we see around us mold us. Of that there is no question.
Of course our biology also influences our actions, but it's not the only factor.
@_Soren_ from the moment that her premise was tested and scrutinized, multiple time by experts on the topic, and every time the conclusions were the same, she can say it was proven scientifically.
Men and women certainly do every crime and bad deed imaginable. But depending on what you are talking about, they do it at different rates.
There is a popular believe that says that men must be attractive, bla bla bla, and have a woman. There is a social pression that men must be able to do anything. In love too. Women today are asked to think about themselves and their career. The mentality changes.
Also, there are sayings telling that men without women are losers.
It definitely depends on the man's character and life goals. A man who is more family oriented probably is unhappy when he's single while a man who only seeks fun as in bars, being social and free is happy being on his own.
Men are more unhappy being single than women.
Or at least, more numbers of men lol
I hope not! It’s awful when people give up hope. Love feels too good to let the bad times get to you. I think we learn a lot about ourselves in those single spaces.
Nope.
It depends not on gender but on the person itself! It depends on WHO is wanting a family, or looking for love and commitment more, not on gender! 🙂
If you are a buddhist monk or something then it is very likely you are both single and happy.
Unhappiness is far more influenced by brain chatter than by the presence or absence of a partner.
If you are having the time of your life while being single then I dont think the gender itself decides whether you are unhappy or not.
I don´t know. I think single guys are more likely to talk about it and point out they are single. But I would call unhappier since they could still find their passion in other things.
I feel like single men are probably happier than women. Social pressures to be with someone and all that are more in women than men.
I posted I don't know... but I've seen the single ones complain a whole lot more than the ones that are set.
I’d guess most all are happier without other peoples problems to balance. Some relationships are worth the trouble.
People who always need a partner are weak. Every once in a while is fine, like when you crave a peen or a snatch. All the time though? That's snowflake shit. :)
Depends upon the individual. Overall I think guys are happier single if they are getting laid enough.
If you are unhappy being single men or women go out there and date people
I believe single men are happier if not far better off being single.
According to studies, yes single women are happier than single men and are happier than married women.
Again I think this is a very general question or leaning case your trying to represent here it's a case on case basis.
Doesn't matter whether they're single or not but the level on which they've worked on their shit.
Hell no. Men are much better at being alone than women. Being alone slowly drives women crazy.
More or less everyone feels unhappy when they are single and lonely. Some pretend to be happy and some don't. We are humans not machines or robots. Everyone needs some friends and a life partner.
Men can more easily learn to live with being single. Males experience less regret after hooking up.
I'm happy not to have the stress that comes with a woman.
Study after study show that the happiest people are married couples, one male and one female.
Happiness has very little, if any, to do with relationship.
Im not sure. I mean a lot of millenial women I’ve met are miserable people but online I’ve seen more men voicing frustration with being single
Single man can't have a girlfriend by wanting.
Single woman is single because she wants to. Otherwise she wouldn't be single.
Well, they sure whine about it a lot more.
I know I agree
Manless Women live in Humility, perhaps?
I as a Single Man, did Ok. Occasionally, I rent Me a Ho'ee.
Happier. No nagging.
Probably, women don’t have sexual urges that often or need sex so it’s harder for single guys
What facts are you basing this on?
I hear different things. Read my replies to the other answers.
I am and tbh.. I dont care
It depends on their age and life plans
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