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We could say it's just the sex, but I think it goes way deeper. Women are more selective by nature. The whole point of the entire alpha and beta analogy is that there are men who are majorly considered desirable, men who are mainly average (not shit but not great) and men who are almost universally seen as undesirable. We men are prideful creatures. Ego requires success, success requires confidence, confidence requires ego. It all hangs on social validation. No validation of your atractiveness and social value implies on you having few to no worth to others (in a 'love life' aspect), which makes you bitter towards the people who rejected you. Being bitter might stem from a lot of things, but it's mainly a feeling of injustice and impotence, because dating and hooking up depends on consent and interest from two, not just one. And even though you may be making an inhuman effort to become better in the eyes of others, you might be failing hard at it. Not to mention that there's a good chance you see yourself as someone of value. Of course, that doesn't mean you're the most desirable man in the world, but you'll feel as though you should be more respected and desired by others, and that simply doesn't happen. With a woman, well, they just accept limitations and move on, they look for a minimally comfortable life and they settle for less than they think they deserve, and frequently end up living sad and unsatisfying lives. Most men will never settle for less unless they absolutely need to in an 'otherwise I'll die alone' situation. Lets also not forget that women are mainly monogamous. They dont need the approval of the entire planet, they just feel like they should get some. Not men. Men require more approval than anyone else in my opinion. We want to be the best guy of the crew, we want to be the womanizer-like guy who is famous and desired among pretty much all women, we want to be the 'king'. Anything less frequently is disapointing
@UnknownXYZ Except that there are no paragraph breaks!
I actually disagree too but I respect your opinion
@UnknownXYZ Thanks. @frozenhorizon I'd love to know your take on this. My comment is as far as I could figure out in a few minutes...
I don't think most men want to be the "best", to bag "10s", to be a womanizer. I think most men who are not charismatic, socially gifted or skilled, who are shy, have social anxiety, etc. wish there were an easier way for them to connect. In this modern age, even with equality becoming closer to reality, women still expect men to do all the heavy lifting and leg work in dating/courtship. While women are expected to preen themselves (cosmetics, hairstyles, nail polish, shave legs, etc.) a man's battle is more internal, it is essentially more to the core of his being. A woman can spend time polishing herself up, while a man must climb the mountain or "slay the dragon" as some people put it (success, confidence, power, etc.). All the while, women's expectations are becoming more and more difficult to meet. *Some* men become bitter for the same reasons women are the ones who initiate divorces the vast majority of the time; the onus always falls on the man.
because single women = empowered! strong! independent! she's just finding herself! working on herself at the moment! whereas single men = useless. loser. unlikeable. socially awkward. somethings wrong with him if he can't get a girl.
Not really. I have many friends who are single both men and women nearing 30. You say that single women are empowered and strong, but in reality they are rejected, being used up, played upon and left behind, which is the reason why they end up getting so depressed and lonely. On the contrary, most single Men live out their life because they don't have to feed anyone or take responsibility of a family. They can get laid whenever they want, can party and travel whenever they want, and the list goes on. May be that's the reason why, most women are on anti depressants than men these days. by the way, an ageing single woman is much more socially awkward than an ageing Single Man.
@Hardyboy999 the sarcasm doesn't translate well.
Well, if someone posts a sarcastic answer then they should expect a sarcastic reply too.
I don't think single men are more bitter. I think there's a combination of things happening1. Society encourages men to approach their emotions very stoically except for anger. Meaning women are more likely to share and vent in healthier ways finding the root source of the pain faster and moving on quicker2. Although women communicate more men communicate louder. men are raised to be opinionated as well as assertive. I think this pushes more men into speaking on their ideas from a position of educating others rather than being educated themselves. Leading to less emotional growth and more confirmation bias3. Your perception. Imagine being a guy what do you think you would notice more people attacking you and people like you directly or people like you attacking others. When you feel targeted you instinctively get defensive. It's natural normal and usually beneficial but it can also lead you to believe something that isn't true. So are you sure men are usually more bitter or do you notice that their bitter more often because you're a woman and a (probably unintended) target of their bitterness. There's probably more factors that could go into this answer but so far this is all I have. hope it helps.
The statement is not correct.There is nothing more bitter an angry than a 30 or 40 something single woman, who realises that she has been lied to by the 'girls can do anything', 'put your career first' and 'you can have babies later' Feminists.Or, the Feminist land whales who hate men because men do not want to lie next to her repulsive hairy body.Or, the Feminists who were born ugly, so hate good-looking women and want to make other women as unattractive as they are.The bitter men are either in the category of TFL (True Forced Lonliness) or men who have been arse raped by a divorce court.The TFL men are bitter because they spent their youth alone, while they watched woman after woman throw herself crotch first at the 'exciting' bad boys, who used women and broke their hearts. A man cannot watch that go on for years, with woman after woman, without forming an unflattering opinion of the female cognitive process.The divorced man realises that women are economic predators, who see men as resource providers to be exploited and discarded if/when their usefulness is at an end, or a more resource-rich man comes along.The divorced man also realises that women lie as standard operating procedure, especially in court. False allegations of spousal rape, domestic violence and of the man molesting his own children have become almost standard, during a divorce.By about age 30 to 35, a significant and increasing number of men realise that, although they may be lonely and sexually frustrated without a woman, in the bigger picture they will be happier and a lot more prosperous if they stay away from women.
HA you obviously haven't heard of feminist. But.Single women need campaigns to tell them - That they are "beautiful" they way they are. - That they "don't need a man"- That they are "strong and independent"Because without them, they fall into the pits of depression and eating disorders because they desperate for male attention. Single women can openly piss and moan about "all men are..." and it doesn't get taken as offensive bitter talk. While a male making a single negative comment is taken as a massive misogynistic hate speak against all women because he must be "bitter" or "have a chip on shit shoulder". Therefore it's easier to pretend that guys are the "bitter" ones.Society also doesn't chastise a single female as a negative thing, they assume she has chosen to be single. While a single man "must have something wrong with him". It's seen as a plague on his character that "no woman wants him".But again single women can generally pick and choose if they want random sex and with who. Single men generally can not. Therefore sexual frustration is higher with single men than women. Giving women less to piss and moan about except the "there are no good men" gripe, "all men are pigs/scum/perverts/slime/etc" gripe, etc.It's easy to sit on a high horse and look down your nose at men when you have a little bubble of entitlement and privilege to protect you from truth.
Is that a fact? are they?Well, if they are then you don't know what can be exact reasons for it. Some possible reasons can be:1. May be they were cheated in the last relationship they had.2. May be they had a very suffocating and an obsessive partner and so they ended up only suffering in the last relationship. Hence pain and suffering has made them bitter.3. Broken heart. Now a person with a broken heart can either become bitter and cold or they can become overly sensitive. This can be one of the reasons for the bitterness.
How often do you see a bunch of guys get together over a tub of ice cream and a movie of their favorite hot actresses and share their feelings and bitch about their exes or that they can't find a good guy? Girls get bitter too. We just do it in a different way. The internet provides a more open place for men to discuss this stuff without as much judgment. If they try to talk about it IRL often their friends will criticize them. Call them a 'pussy' or 'gay' or something. Or they get shut down completely before they can even form a full sentence.
Whoops I mean a good girl.Though that begs the question, are gay men more likely to discuss that stuff?
And of course there is a ton of judgement online. But at least there are places guys can fully discuss this stuff without being interrupted and shut down immediately.
Single men have usually been taken advantage of financially and are still paying off debt incurred by their ex.They also don't like how women that have 3 kids by 3 different guys expect a single guy that didn't make those mistakes to take care of her and accept all the stupid mistakes she made. That is usually the case when a woman says "Where have all the good guys gone?" She is usually one of the ones that made many mistakes like that, has slept around, and expects a man to come along that didn't do those things and take care of her.Not all, but many of them that I have encountered have that attitude.
I don't know that I agree that of bitter single people that men actually make up the majority. I've met far more bitter single females than bitter single males. But just assuming guys actually do make up the majority. My guess would be because generally speaking guys are the ones that have to go out and do something about it. In general, girls just have to sit back and wait for the guy to inevitably fall in her lap. But again, I doubt the initial assumption is even true. Women make up the majority of the population in America. Most complaints about an ex usually comes from women. Being jaded about an old partner and carrying that with you seems to be more common in women than it does men. I'd say there are more bitter women. That's why "bitter old woman" is a stereotype or a bitter/jealous woman is a common stereotype. While the same stereotype isn't a thing for men. There is a stereotype of a jealous/controlling man. But not a bitter man.
Single women constantly get attention and most the time have like a lot of offers.. single men usually are either used abused friend zoned unless there extremely attractive and constantly get treated like there an annoyance or threat because there's a lot of assholes out there that make other men look bad.
It's biology. Women outnumber men and we also outlive them. Hence we are naturally able to handle being single better. It's survival of the fittest. My husband died ten years ago. I married him because I loved him, not because I NEEDED a husband. So I never remarried. That's just the thing. We can withstand being alone more easily.
I can't even count the number of guys I've turned down. I'm single and as upbeat as ever. Some people are single BECAUSE of their constant bitterness, not the other way around. Some people just don't want a relationship. I've had guys on here who disagreed with me call me "sour grapes", "bitter", etc "because I didn't have a man","Nobody wants a relationship with me" (even though they had no way of knowing whether I was single or not) lmao. Where do people get this idea that single people can't be happy and why do people assume that there aren't miserable people in relationships?
We get it, you're a welfare queen lol but yeah, I see your point.
What is a wellfare queen?
A welfare queen is usually a label that refers to a black woman who has kids without a father and has to rely on welfare money to support her children. Yeah, it's a fucked up term and is just stereotype nonsense.
@BraveHeart97 Not sure if you're joking or not but I don't have any children. I hope to have a couple of them someday when I'm closer to 30, though.
I was just joking. I didn't mean to offend you. Like I said, it was just a stupid stereotype that I heard.
@BraveHeart97 I wasn't offended. I just thought you were assuming something about a complete stranger. Which is pretty deluded. But maybe that was your point? Were you highlighting how I commented on people's assumptions about relationships vs. single people? I was just unclear as to where you were coming from.
I was just joking it was nothing personal. But the tone of your comment did sound like you have a bitter view towards men.
@BraveHeart97 I didn't take it personally. I actually didn't even know what you were talking about. I don't understand how I came across as bitter towards men. Could you please explain it to me?
Look, I get it. You're a "strong independent woman who needs no man" and you think most men are thugs. Not all men are deadbeat dads or thugs you know. Now stop commenting on this thread.
@BraveHeart97 I never said any of that and my beliefs couldn't be farther from what you just presumed. You're on my comment and felt the need to project your inferiority complex onto a stranger for some reason lol. I'm actually opting to be single right now because I have a lot of things I need to sort out in my own life, not because I don't like men or even because I don't want to be in a relationship. I only mentioned that I actively avoid relationships because people have somehow concluded that all single people don't have a choice in the matter.
I don't know any single men who are bitter lol. If anything, I known people who just came out or are in relationships that are completely bitter about their partners (mostly women). I always hear women complain about how her man is not giving enough time for her and how he doesn't pay attention and shit like that. Ah well, you get what you deserve I guess. I'll be honest though, I use to be bitter when I was single but now I don't see why people fuss over relationships. Women are only good for one thing and that's sex. Plus women only seem to drain your wallet, time, and emotional and mental health. I'm only 19 and I rather take care of my family who truly loves me unconditionally instead of some bitter femnazi hoe who hates my guts and will just jump on some other alpha dude's dick.
Men are prideful creatures, so not being at to get a girl hurts that pride. Also I think girls need to see that even if they are the ugliest, homeliest, burlap sack wearing, smells bad, drug using, dumbest, unmotivated, living with mom and dad girl, poorest girl in the world that someone will still bang her. Don't believe me? Go to a run down trailer park, a dumpy part of the city, a port of truck stop and see what those hookers look like. Someone is using their services.So yes when single men get bitter it is because they know when they aren't looking for girls the chances of a good one falling into their laps is very low, or a girl in general.
uh, single girls that look like above aren't bitter because OBVIOUSLY it's a choice i mean damn... but i mean bitter single women are a pretty big majority in america...but i would disagree for the vast majority of girls especially the ones on this site. People on this site tend to blame and attack the other gender for the wrongs theyve received in the real world. guys on here are just more upfront about their bitterness as where girls on here try to act like they're not being bitter so that they can't be called out for it.
women are encouraged to build support systems, whereas men are told that showing emotion is not 'manly' and to keep it to themselves (a trend that needs to die, like, last century).
Your posts are always good +1
Because the single men are being rejected by the single women
different strokes for different folks and I can say sometimes it's cause either we put ourselves in that situation by doing something stupid so we punish ourselves until we don't hurt anymore or we've been hurt by people we loved. I was bitter when my wife first left me because I didn't understand why and in a way I still don't. but after giving your all to someone who supposed to love you forever then just decides one day hey I don't wanna be married anymore because I think I got married too young. and takes everything from you and refuses to let you see your daughter and gets pregnant by your best friend while married to you. you'd be bitter too but in all time heals or changes it's all up to that person. And you women are too sometimes.
Your former wife. . . she is the typical woman.AWALT (All Women Are Like That)
I usually find it the other way around. A single woman will often try to hurt a guy that she does not like romantically after a failed date. Or she will use her guy friends as she would a date without the benefits of having a relationship and then when they realize it she will betray them and dump them.Guys might be more outspoken about it but were more outspoken in general.
I've never had a girlfriend or even a short fling. I've been actively trying for 10 years now and I'm now 26.In that time I've been lied to, cheated on, mislead, lead on, scammed, robbed, attacked physically and a whole host of other issues. I try not to let all this get me down, but at the end of the day after trying so hard for so long just to find SOMETHING and only getting hurt in the process, why should I not be bitter?
How were you cheated on if you never had a girlfriend or fling?
@Bandit74 The girl I was pursuing kept telling me to be patient and eventually something would happen between us. After of a year she kept asking more and more from me, with my time and money and emotions, while she slept and flirted with multiple other people including multiple exes. She did this in secret, but then came out and told me about it like it was no big deal.
Depends on the age. Younger single men? Yes. Meet a 35+ years old single women and you will find a completely different picture.Why? Because at a womans youth, she can easily get a relationship at any given time. But that eventually fades and she turns bitter.
In dating we have the short end of the stick: We have to approach, ask her out, pay for the entire date whether we liked it or not and there is no warranty for a second date. If this sums up like say 10 days per month, that will accumulate a significant sum of money burned on women. At least that's how I think.Also lack of success with women and being heartbroken by some treacherous harpies.
And there is likely not going to be sex in the end of the day. How could I forgot to mention that.
You don't have to pay for the entire thing if you don't like it and don't care about a second date haha
And if you're going on 10 dates per month and single after that then maybe it's you doing something wrong?
That's more than twice a week, that's a lot of dates dude. Hit me up with some of those girls' numbers please
@frozenhorizon I was speaking in theory and possible facts, not how I am dealing with 10 gold diggers per month.
I don't know a lot of times they blame women for it too lol, but being single now I just chalk it up to not meeting the right person yet, and only get irritated at people that act stupid or play games but after a little while its not worth my thoughts anymore
I actually don't know if that's true (not saying it's not, I'm saying I don't know). But I guess a lot of people can't handle rejection. And get bitter with the fact that no one is obligated to find them attractive.
oh u touched a nerve their girl... bitter single men vs. bitter single women... who is more bitter... I don't know... being a single man myself... not getting layed may be... I can't think of nothing else.
yeah this is something that I have noticed also with single men. They usually are very judgmental and are the ones who bash women for any or every thing.
Because women know they can get a boyfriend when ever they want... so they put less importance on it... it won't be frustrating when they can just go get one if they are really desperate... if a guy is really desperate it will only make it harder to get one. Women also receive attention and compliments frequently... guys don't get the same validation... some men won't give two craps (men who are naturally very confident or cocky) .. but a lot will.
Because dating is more of a struggle for men. In the dating life, men consistently get the short end of the stick. I don't envy them.
People are bitter in proportion to the degree to which their desires are thwarted. More desire equals more bitterness.
generally, the majority of the female population has more options than the male population.
Women are never taught to expect they deserve a relationship. Men are.
How many female family members tell girls from a young age ''you are going to find a lovely, handsome rich man'' etc etc.
@TheUsername27 As in YOU will put in the work to find him. You cannot just expect for a nice man to fall in your lap. You need to put yourself in good situations and make good decisions if you want to find good men.
I always see you post anti male posts. I don't know why some women come on here just to try and slate men. Your 'point'... I'm sorry but no gender is taught to expect or not expect a relationship. I do know girls are often told they are beautiful etc (sometimes being told you will find a great handsome man or something)...
@TheUsername27 Which is why men shoot women when we say no or turn them down? They just do that for no reason? There's no expectation that you're entitled to female companionship and she'll like it?Because the statistics say otherwise. Instead of getting pissy at me for pointing out what men do why don't you take some personal responsibility and say "hmm that is something that women experience. I should be aware of that." Or is that too much pressure for you?
So much bitterness. And erm.. ''Which is why men shoot women when we say no or turn them down? '' is bull shit. I'm sure you can find a some rare occasions when that happened... but in civilized societies that doesn't happen on a relevant basis. I have heard stories of women who have stabbed their husband for leaving them etc. Hell even my Dad's EX wife threw knives at him as he left her.
Every post you make it some kind of feminist spinned argument. Your the kind who thinks there is a rape culture in western society for gods sake. And yes rapes happen but they are not condoned by men... only done be a fringe minority of men... it doesn't mean men everywhere are raping lots of women in countries like the UK and other men are approving of it.
Sorry, my boyfriend must have missed the "you deserve a relationship" class.
@Kirah For your sake I certainly hope so.
@TheUsername27 Because there IS rape culture in the west. You're basically sitting here being like "OMG u guyz this gurl says the sky is BLUE on a sunny day! So bitter!"Uh no it is not condoned by a small amount of men. It's condoned by a LARGE group of men as evidenced by the fact that a man who sexually assaults women and 13 year old girls is president.
@BellePepper there is no "rape culture" in the West, rape is vilified to the extreme.As for that thing about Trump, you better have something more substantial than him saying "they would let me do it".
I would laugh if one day there was an actual rape culture and then you could see what one is (aka what happens in the middle east).
@Kirah @TheUsername27 If it's vilified why did Brock turners lawyer argue that it wasn't Brock's fault he raped a girl and try to blame his decisions on alcohol? Why was Brock then only given 3 months in jail? Why did people say try to blame the woman for BROCK'S decision? Why was a man in Montana who was caught BY HIS WIFE RAPING HIS DAUGHTER allowed to go back home after *60* days. You face harsher sentences for stealing than you do for raping someone. And even when people *SEE* someone raping another person the rapist doesn't get in trouble and everyone still blames the victim. That is absolutely rape culture.
@BellePepper that's an absolute lie. You do not get harsher sentences for stealing.Theft gets you up to a year in prison (in the US). Rape gets you 9.8 years, on average. If you're going to make stuff up on the spot because you don't have any real arguments, then this discussion is over.Take a hike, go lie to someone else. Don't bother responding, you have already been blocked.
@Kirah I literally just have you two examples from two different states where men got less than a year for rape so clearly yeah people DO go to jail longer for theft than rape. I know you claim to struggle with numbers but months are definitely smaller than years ;)
There is no rape culture in the Western World, Rapists get put in prison and people that do sexual harassment in the workplace get fired and can't get another job destroying their lives. Also worst of all these people get their names plastered all over the media and shamed by everyone by in society. Go to the middle east there is plenty of rape culture there you can harp on about.
@trentlee1244 Uh clearly they are more than able to find a job again since we know Donald trump sexually assaulted multiple women. Why do I need to go somewhere else when there's plenty here?
Do you even care what is happening to woman in Muslim countries? They are been severely oppressed over there. Feminists don't seem to want to address that issue so they make up false issues such as rape culture, the wage gap or the patriarchy. Modern feminism has turned into man hating and now it's time to stop it and take a stand against it. It's also interesting to note woman are abandoning feminism in their millions as for example in the UK only 7% of woman identify as feminists yet 92% of woman believe in achieving equality of the sexes and in America less than 1 in 5 woman identify as feminists. We need don't feminism anymore what we need is humanism. Most woman realise feminism is man hating but there is some 2nd wave true feminists around as Christina Hoff Somers who truly believes in equality of the sexes and is a true humanist, she calls out modern feminists that man hate and she also believes such things as rape culture, wage gaps or the patriarchy is complete false.
@trentlee1244 Agreed man. People like bellendpepper think she speaks for women... every post i see of hers in some way manages to slag men off it's a joke.
@TheUsername27 Yeah I have seen too many posts by her that are basically flat out man hating, other woman on this site do not behave that way or make those comments.
@trentlee1244 Do you even care that we aren't talking about that right now?
But it has everything to do with what we are talking about right now
@trentlee1244 No it doesn't.
You just saying it doesn't because you have counter argument to my facts, looks like this conversation is over now and I rest my case.
@trentlee1244 Go ahead. It won't change the facts :)
opps I meant you have no counter argument, should have proof read before I hit "submit" :P
@trentlee1244 Wow and I'm still right. Funny how that works!
Right about what exactly?
@trentlee1244 Everything :)
If you are right about everything then please back up your claim with facts and evidence?
Like lets start with, please provide some facts to back up your claim why woman are never taught that they deserve a relationship and men are, ideally from academic peered reviewed studies. Also do you have any evidence (that is not from a newspaper or some random woman who claims he has with no evidence to back their claim up) of actually Donald Trump sexually assaulting a woman like you claim he has.
@trentlee1244 I'm using my 28 years of experience as a woman and the experiences of all my female friends. Pretty substantial. He openly admitted to just kissing women and grabbing them by the pussy. Both are sexual assault.
Are you sure what he was saying was admitting that or if it was back room banter where someone illegally recorded him without his knowlegde? He has never successfully been convicted of sexual assault and we live in a society of innocent until proven guilty and Trump hasn't been found guilty yet so you can't go around accusing people crime with no proof. The answer to that is you don't know. And how do you know Men are taught that they deserve a relationship or if other woman outside your small group of friends are taught that. You just don't know that.
So again you have no facts or evidence to back up your claims so I am afraid you can't you are right about everything if you can't back it up.
@trentlee1244 Judging from the number of women he's assaulted Im preeeeeetty sure it was more than talk :)
Where is the proof?
@trentlee1244 you're wasting your time, she obviously doesn't actually have proof. Otherwise, she would have posted it already.
@Kirah what happened to you blocking me?
@trentlee1244 Donald trump admitting to doing it is the proof. Jfc men flat out admit to sexual assault and you still want proof they did it.
@trentlee1244 Best just not bother to replying to her. she is like this on all of her posts. I used to waste time on feminist posts etc... no point... some of the worst people come on this forum to spread their ignorance and stupidity.
@TheUsername27 My posts keep getting removed haha so again yep completely agree
@trentlee1244 Lol seriously I'm the same... i think the admins are social justice warriors. Damn straight girls can bitch on this site and get away with it. The amount of things removed for being 'nonsense'... i made a post about this issue and big surprise they removed it.
@trentlee1244 @TheUsername27 My goodness boys. You just don't seem to learn at all :c
@TheUsername27 Yeah all these SJW are destroying freedom of speech and freedom of expression you literally state some real facts or try to express your opinion and then the SJW will basically cry foul, get all emotional and try to silence you just for the silly reason they don't agree with you or like what you said. Like seriously if are to ever any intellectual discussions ever again we need to hear all the facts and everyone's opinion to have proper discussions around real issues.
@trentlee1244 The funny thing is... it's because of all of these feminsts and SJW's why donald trump won... they will deny this but it is true. Most people are relatively in the middle when it comes to politics i think... but the left have gotten way out of hand. They are more violent and they have more cancerous fake news coverage now.
@TheUsername27 Completely agree the left has gotten way out of control and now all the average joes are standing together to do something about it plus the left emotional left is now getting destroyed by calm people in the centre or right just stating real facts backed up by studies lol
Well women have it a lot easier when it comes to sex and dating so it makes sense that the gender that faces less dificulties would be less likely to become bitter.
Do you have any specific source to back up such a claim? I can't say that I ever noticed men or women being more bitter than the other while single.
I don't find that to be the case.I find that divorced women are the bitter ones. That seems to be because their ex-husbands traded them in for a newer, hotter model.
Cause single women can still get attention easily of they want it
Because we're sick of hearing about "rape culture".
Single women can get any man they want whether they are fat, short, nerdy etc.A single man has to go to the gym everyday for hours, be tall, be rich, drive a sports car, live in a mansion in order for women to be attracted to him.
I don't think that's strictly true. I'm pretty sure the majority of guys in relationships don't have any of these let alone all of them.
Guys are generally more aggressive. They harbor more rage and it comes out as being a jerk. However, I've come across some bitter single women... maybe they are bitchy to begin with, I don't know.
Cuz they miss the intimacy with a girl they care for or cuz they have had to many broken heart's
Really? Do you see single men falsely claiming they've been raped? Writing articles about how approaching people to try to get numbers is sexual harassment?
Nah, they are equally bitter. Women are just better at hiding it.
No, I think it's the opposite. A lot of single women have "sworn off men" or hate men, not usually the case with single guys. We're just single because we can't find anyone. We don't hate women.
I would think not LOL they seem to enjoy themselves most of the time. They're only bitter if their past relationship left a bad taste in their mouth.
The fact that they believe in the friendzone speaks for itself.
Experts have said it's a real thing.
Any sources to back up that claim?
Because we aren't getting any and women can go with out for years
Because men are the ones asking most and geting rejected most so our self esteem takes a bigger battering as a result.Being asked is a lot better for your self esteem than asking.
lack of sex gives men both mental and physical pain.
probably because for guys, guys literally have to work for a partner, to get a partner, while for girls it just happens, the only work girls have to do it seems is work on their physical appearence thats it.
Because a lot of guys feel they aren't good enough or worthy of a girl because of past experiences. So when a guy is single and reminiscing on past experiences, it makes him bitter because he knows he can't get or find a girl.
The comments just speak for themselves. So much salt. It's because we have lower standards looks wise.
"It's because we have lower standards looks wise." As in women have lower standards? 100% false. Why do girls say... I need a guy to be this tall. Anything under 6' I am not interested in.
That's simply not true.en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bateman%27s_principle
Single women haven't been rejected, they just haven't been asked.Single men, have been rejected. That's basically it.
girls are supposed to be with someone.. by definition, they feel useless, if they don't have someone in their life
"by definition"? Where is the origin of this definition if I may ask?
look it up.. it originates from the 50's and earlier. until women were allowed to work, and actually MAKE MONEY, they were told "you're useless" without a man. that's obviously changed now
Single women are single by choice, they always have guys hitting on them or trying to make a move.Single guys are often single because they are always rejected since they have to do the approaching.
I don't think so. A woman's opportunities hit their prime in her youthful years, at the max 5-6 years and her options go downhill as she ages. But for a Man as he ages his opportunities sky rocket. There's a small concept behind this logic.A woman looks at a man's wallet, which improves as he ages while a man looks at a woman's looks, which wanes as she ages. Now you know the answer.
Because men need like 700 things to be even looked at while a woman just needs to be good looking, have a good personality and takes care of herself. It's a bunch of bs.
i dont think so. there are lots of bitter single women, specially when they are near 30
Yeah feminists are less bitter than single man lmfao.
Because it seems for the most part, girls control or get to decide in the beginning if things are going to progress further
Because some men (like me) want a girlfriend to love and but can't find. As for girls, they think that someone will find them one day, no need to worry.
Single women are more jealous of their friends that have boyfriends
I'm not currently involved in a relationship, and I don't consider myself bitter.
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