Well women have it a lot easier when it comes to sex and dating so it makes sense that the gender that faces less dificulties would be less likely to become bitter.
yeah this is something that I have noticed also with single men. They usually are very judgmental and are the ones who bash women for any or every thing.
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Single women can get any man they want whether they are fat, short, nerdy etc.
A single man has to go to the gym everyday for hours, be tall, be rich, drive a sports car, live in a mansion in order for women to be attracted to him.
@TheUsername27 As in YOU will put in the work to find him. You cannot just expect for a nice man to fall in your lap. You need to put yourself in good situations and make good decisions if you want to find good men.
I always see you post anti male posts. I don't know why some women come on here just to try and slate men. Your 'point'... I'm sorry but no gender is taught to expect or not expect a relationship. I do know girls are often told they are beautiful etc (sometimes being told you will find a great handsome man or something)...
@TheUsername27 Which is why men shoot women when we say no or turn them down? They just do that for no reason? There's no expectation that you're entitled to female companionship and she'll like it?
Because the statistics say otherwise. Instead of getting pissy at me for pointing out what men do why don't you take some personal responsibility and say "hmm that is something that women experience. I should be aware of that." Or is that too much pressure for you?
So much bitterness. And erm.. ''Which is why men shoot women when we say no or turn them down? '' is bull shit. I'm sure you can find a some rare occasions when that happened... but in civilized societies that doesn't happen on a relevant basis. I have heard stories of women who have stabbed their husband for leaving them etc. Hell even my Dad's EX wife threw knives at him as he left her.
Every post you make it some kind of feminist spinned argument. Your the kind who thinks there is a rape culture in western society for gods sake. And yes rapes happen but they are not condoned by men... only done be a fringe minority of men... it doesn't mean men everywhere are raping lots of women in countries like the UK and other men are approving of it.
@TheUsername27 Because there IS rape culture in the west.
You're basically sitting here being like "OMG u guyz this gurl says the sky is BLUE on a sunny day! So bitter!"
Uh no it is not condoned by a small amount of men. It's condoned by a LARGE group of men as evidenced by the fact that a man who sexually assaults women and 13 year old girls is president.
@Kirah @TheUsername27 If it's vilified why did Brock turners lawyer argue that it wasn't Brock's fault he raped a girl and try to blame his decisions on alcohol? Why was Brock then only given 3 months in jail? Why did people say try to blame the woman for BROCK'S decision?
Why was a man in Montana who was caught BY HIS WIFE RAPING HIS DAUGHTER allowed to go back home after *60* days.
You face harsher sentences for stealing than you do for raping someone. And even when people *SEE* someone raping another person the rapist doesn't get in trouble and everyone still blames the victim.
@BellePepper that's an absolute lie. You do not get harsher sentences for stealing.
Theft gets you up to a year in prison (in the US). Rape gets you 9.8 years, on average. If you're going to make stuff up on the spot because you don't have any real arguments, then this discussion is over.
Take a hike, go lie to someone else. Don't bother responding, you have already been blocked.
@Kirah I literally just have you two examples from two different states where men got less than a year for rape so clearly yeah people DO go to jail longer for theft than rape.
I know you claim to struggle with numbers but months are definitely smaller than years ;)
There is no rape culture in the Western World, Rapists get put in prison and people that do sexual harassment in the workplace get fired and can't get another job destroying their lives. Also worst of all these people get their names plastered all over the media and shamed by everyone by in society. Go to the middle east there is plenty of rape culture there you can harp on about.
Do you even care what is happening to woman in Muslim countries? They are been severely oppressed over there. Feminists don't seem to want to address that issue so they make up false issues such as rape culture, the wage gap or the patriarchy. Modern feminism has turned into man hating and now it's time to stop it and take a stand against it. It's also interesting to note woman are abandoning feminism in their millions as for example in the UK only 7% of woman identify as feminists yet 92% of woman believe in achieving equality of the sexes and in America less than 1 in 5 woman identify as feminists. We need don't feminism anymore what we need is humanism. Most woman realise feminism is man hating but there is some 2nd wave true feminists around as Christina Hoff Somers who truly believes in equality of the sexes and is a true humanist, she calls out modern feminists that man hate and she also believes such things as rape culture, wage gaps or the patriarchy is complete false.
@trentlee1244 Agreed man. People like bellendpepper think she speaks for women... every post i see of hers in some way manages to slag men off it's a joke.
@TheUsername27 Yeah I have seen too many posts by her that are basically flat out man hating, other woman on this site do not behave that way or make those comments.
Like lets start with, please provide some facts to back up your claim why woman are never taught that they deserve a relationship and men are, ideally from academic peered reviewed studies. Also do you have any evidence (that is not from a newspaper or some random woman who claims he has with no evidence to back their claim up) of actually Donald Trump sexually assaulting a woman like you claim he has.
Are you sure what he was saying was admitting that or if it was back room banter where someone illegally recorded him without his knowlegde? He has never successfully been convicted of sexual assault and we live in a society of innocent until proven guilty and Trump hasn't been found guilty yet so you can't go around accusing people crime with no proof. The answer to that is you don't know. And how do you know Men are taught that they deserve a relationship or if other woman outside your small group of friends are taught that. You just don't know that.
@trentlee1244 Best just not bother to replying to her. she is like this on all of her posts. I used to waste time on feminist posts etc... no point... some of the worst people come on this forum to spread their ignorance and stupidity.
@trentlee1244 Lol seriously I'm the same... i think the admins are social justice warriors. Damn straight girls can bitch on this site and get away with it. The amount of things removed for being 'nonsense'... i made a post about this issue and big surprise they removed it.
@TheUsername27 Yeah all these SJW are destroying freedom of speech and freedom of expression you literally state some real facts or try to express your opinion and then the SJW will basically cry foul, get all emotional and try to silence you just for the silly reason they don't agree with you or like what you said. Like seriously if are to ever any intellectual discussions ever again we need to hear all the facts and everyone's opinion to have proper discussions around real issues.
@trentlee1244 The funny thing is... it's because of all of these feminsts and SJW's why donald trump won... they will deny this but it is true. Most people are relatively in the middle when it comes to politics i think... but the left have gotten way out of hand. They are more violent and they have more cancerous fake news coverage now.
@TheUsername27 Completely agree the left has gotten way out of control and now all the average joes are standing together to do something about it plus the left emotional left is now getting destroyed by calm people in the centre or right just stating real facts backed up by studies lol
Im 44 single male and i can't find a woman. Online is a waste of time and money for men just to get rejected. I dont drink anymore so i don't want a drinker. I can't and dont want kids. I wish i had love in my life, but i have to learn to survive in this lonely loveless life. Im closer to death than birth so i dont have long in this loveless life. It's sad but true.
Guys are generally more aggressive. They harbor more rage and it comes out as being a jerk. However, I've come across some bitter single women... maybe they are bitchy to begin with, I don't know.
I actually don't know if that's true (not saying it's not, I'm saying I don't know). But I guess a lot of people can't handle rejection. And get bitter with the fact that no one is obligated to find them attractive.
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No, I think it's the opposite. A lot of single women have "sworn off men" or hate men, not usually the case with single guys. We're just single because we can't find anyone. We don't hate women.
Really? Do you see single men falsely claiming they've been raped? Writing articles about how approaching people to try to get numbers is sexual harassment?
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Because men are the ones asking most and geting rejected most so our self esteem takes a bigger battering as a result. Being asked is a lot better for your self esteem than asking.
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Single women haven't been rejected, they just haven't been asked.
Single men, have been rejected. That's basically it.
oh u touched a nerve their girl... bitter single men vs. bitter single women... who is more bitter... I don't know... being a single man myself... not getting layed may be... I can't think of nothing else.
People are bitter in proportion to the degree to which their desires are thwarted. More desire equals more bitterness.
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probably because for guys, guys literally have to work for a partner, to get a partner, while for girls it just happens, the only work girls have to do it seems is work on their physical appearence thats it.
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Well women have it a lot easier when it comes to sex and dating so it makes sense that the gender that faces less dificulties would be less likely to become bitter.
yeah this is something that I have noticed also with single men. They usually are very judgmental and are the ones who bash women for any or every thing.
Single women can get any man they want whether they are fat, short, nerdy etc.
A single man has to go to the gym everyday for hours, be tall, be rich, drive a sports car, live in a mansion in order for women to be attracted to him.
I don't think that's strictly true. I'm pretty sure the majority of guys in relationships don't have any of these let alone all of them.
Women are never taught to expect they deserve a relationship. Men are.
How many female family members tell girls from a young age ''you are going to find a lovely, handsome rich man'' etc etc.
@TheUsername27 As in YOU will put in the work to find him. You cannot just expect for a nice man to fall in your lap. You need to put yourself in good situations and make good decisions if you want to find good men.
I always see you post anti male posts. I don't know why some women come on here just to try and slate men. Your 'point'... I'm sorry but no gender is taught to expect or not expect a relationship. I do know girls are often told they are beautiful etc (sometimes being told you will find a great handsome man or something)...
@TheUsername27 Which is why men shoot women when we say no or turn them down? They just do that for no reason? There's no expectation that you're entitled to female companionship and she'll like it?
Because the statistics say otherwise. Instead of getting pissy at me for pointing out what men do why don't you take some personal responsibility and say "hmm that is something that women experience. I should be aware of that." Or is that too much pressure for you?
So much bitterness. And erm.. ''Which is why men shoot women when we say no or turn them down? '' is bull shit. I'm sure you can find a some rare occasions when that happened... but in civilized societies that doesn't happen on a relevant basis. I have heard stories of women who have stabbed their husband for leaving them etc. Hell even my Dad's EX wife threw knives at him as he left her.
Every post you make it some kind of feminist spinned argument. Your the kind who thinks there is a rape culture in western society for gods sake. And yes rapes happen but they are not condoned by men... only done be a fringe minority of men... it doesn't mean men everywhere are raping lots of women in countries like the UK and other men are approving of it.
Sorry, my boyfriend must have missed the "you deserve a relationship" class.
@Kirah For your sake I certainly hope so.
@TheUsername27 Because there IS rape culture in the west.
You're basically sitting here being like "OMG u guyz this gurl says the sky is BLUE on a sunny day! So bitter!"
Uh no it is not condoned by a small amount of men. It's condoned by a LARGE group of men as evidenced by the fact that a man who sexually assaults women and 13 year old girls is president.
@BellePepper there is no "rape culture" in the West, rape is vilified to the extreme.
As for that thing about Trump, you better have something more substantial than him saying "they would let me do it".
I would laugh if one day there was an actual rape culture and then you could see what one is (aka what happens in the middle east).
@Kirah @TheUsername27 If it's vilified why did Brock turners lawyer argue that it wasn't Brock's fault he raped a girl and try to blame his decisions on alcohol? Why was Brock then only given 3 months in jail? Why did people say try to blame the woman for BROCK'S decision?
Why was a man in Montana who was caught BY HIS WIFE RAPING HIS DAUGHTER allowed to go back home after *60* days.
You face harsher sentences for stealing than you do for raping someone. And even when people *SEE* someone raping another person the rapist doesn't get in trouble and everyone still blames the victim.
That is absolutely rape culture.
@BellePepper that's an absolute lie. You do not get harsher sentences for stealing.
Theft gets you up to a year in prison (in the US). Rape gets you 9.8 years, on average. If you're going to make stuff up on the spot because you don't have any real arguments, then this discussion is over.
Take a hike, go lie to someone else. Don't bother responding, you have already been blocked.
@Kirah I literally just have you two examples from two different states where men got less than a year for rape so clearly yeah people DO go to jail longer for theft than rape.
I know you claim to struggle with numbers but months are definitely smaller than years ;)
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There is no rape culture in the Western World, Rapists get put in prison and people that do sexual harassment in the workplace get fired and can't get another job destroying their lives. Also worst of all these people get their names plastered all over the media and shamed by everyone by in society. Go to the middle east there is plenty of rape culture there you can harp on about.
@trentlee1244 Uh clearly they are more than able to find a job again since we know Donald trump sexually assaulted multiple women.
Why do I need to go somewhere else when there's plenty here?
Do you even care what is happening to woman in Muslim countries? They are been severely oppressed over there. Feminists don't seem to want to address that issue so they make up false issues such as rape culture, the wage gap or the patriarchy. Modern feminism has turned into man hating and now it's time to stop it and take a stand against it. It's also interesting to note woman are abandoning feminism in their millions as for example in the UK only 7% of woman identify as feminists yet 92% of woman believe in achieving equality of the sexes and in America less than 1 in 5 woman identify as feminists. We need don't feminism anymore what we need is humanism. Most woman realise feminism is man hating but there is some 2nd wave true feminists around as Christina Hoff Somers who truly believes in equality of the sexes and is a true humanist, she calls out modern feminists that man hate and she also believes such things as rape culture, wage gaps or the patriarchy is complete false.
@trentlee1244 Agreed man. People like bellendpepper think she speaks for women... every post i see of hers in some way manages to slag men off it's a joke.
@TheUsername27 Yeah I have seen too many posts by her that are basically flat out man hating, other woman on this site do not behave that way or make those comments.
@trentlee1244 Do you even care that we aren't talking about that right now?
But it has everything to do with what we are talking about right now
@trentlee1244 No it doesn't.
You just saying it doesn't because you have counter argument to my facts, looks like this conversation is over now and I rest my case.
@trentlee1244 Go ahead. It won't change the facts :)
opps I meant you have no counter argument, should have proof read before I hit "submit" :P
@trentlee1244 Wow and I'm still right. Funny how that works!
Right about what exactly?
@trentlee1244 Everything :)
If you are right about everything then please back up your claim with facts and evidence?
Like lets start with, please provide some facts to back up your claim why woman are never taught that they deserve a relationship and men are, ideally from academic peered reviewed studies. Also do you have any evidence (that is not from a newspaper or some random woman who claims he has with no evidence to back their claim up) of actually Donald Trump sexually assaulting a woman like you claim he has.
@trentlee1244 I'm using my 28 years of experience as a woman and the experiences of all my female friends. Pretty substantial.
He openly admitted to just kissing women and grabbing them by the pussy. Both are sexual assault.
Are you sure what he was saying was admitting that or if it was back room banter where someone illegally recorded him without his knowlegde? He has never successfully been convicted of sexual assault and we live in a society of innocent until proven guilty and Trump hasn't been found guilty yet so you can't go around accusing people crime with no proof. The answer to that is you don't know. And how do you know Men are taught that they deserve a relationship or if other woman outside your small group of friends are taught that. You just don't know that.
So again you have no facts or evidence to back up your claims so I am afraid you can't you are right about everything if you can't back it up.
@trentlee1244 Judging from the number of women he's assaulted Im preeeeeetty sure it was more than talk :)
Where is the proof?
@trentlee1244 you're wasting your time, she obviously doesn't actually have proof. Otherwise, she would have posted it already.
@Kirah what happened to you blocking me?
@trentlee1244 Donald trump admitting to doing it is the proof. Jfc men flat out admit to sexual assault and you still want proof they did it.
@trentlee1244 Best just not bother to replying to her. she is like this on all of her posts. I used to waste time on feminist posts etc... no point... some of the worst people come on this forum to spread their ignorance and stupidity.
@TheUsername27 My posts keep getting removed haha so again yep completely agree
@trentlee1244 Lol seriously I'm the same... i think the admins are social justice warriors. Damn straight girls can bitch on this site and get away with it. The amount of things removed for being 'nonsense'... i made a post about this issue and big surprise they removed it.
@trentlee1244 @TheUsername27 My goodness boys. You just don't seem to learn at all :c
@TheUsername27 Yeah all these SJW are destroying freedom of speech and freedom of expression you literally state some real facts or try to express your opinion and then the SJW will basically cry foul, get all emotional and try to silence you just for the silly reason they don't agree with you or like what you said. Like seriously if are to ever any intellectual discussions ever again we need to hear all the facts and everyone's opinion to have proper discussions around real issues.
@trentlee1244 The funny thing is... it's because of all of these feminsts and SJW's why donald trump won... they will deny this but it is true. Most people are relatively in the middle when it comes to politics i think... but the left have gotten way out of hand. They are more violent and they have more cancerous fake news coverage now.
@TheUsername27 Completely agree the left has gotten way out of control and now all the average joes are standing together to do something about it plus the left emotional left is now getting destroyed by calm people in the centre or right just stating real facts backed up by studies lol
Do you have any specific source to back up such a claim? I can't say that I ever noticed men or women being more bitter than the other while single.
Im 44 single male and i can't find a woman. Online is a waste of time and money for men just to get rejected. I dont drink anymore so i don't want a drinker. I can't and dont want kids. I wish i had love in my life, but i have to learn to survive in this lonely loveless life. Im closer to death than birth so i dont have long in this loveless life. It's sad but true.
Guys are generally more aggressive. They harbor more rage and it comes out as being a jerk. However, I've come across some bitter single women... maybe they are bitchy to begin with, I don't know.
I would think not LOL they seem to enjoy themselves most of the time. They're only bitter if their past relationship left a bad taste in their mouth.
Nah, they are equally bitter. Women are just better at hiding it.
I actually don't know if that's true (not saying it's not, I'm saying I don't know). But I guess a lot of people can't handle rejection. And get bitter with the fact that no one is obligated to find them attractive.
No, I think it's the opposite. A lot of single women have "sworn off men" or hate men, not usually the case with single guys. We're just single because we can't find anyone. We don't hate women.
lack of sex gives men both mental and physical pain.
Really? Do you see single men falsely claiming they've been raped? Writing articles about how approaching people to try to get numbers is sexual harassment?
Because men are the ones asking most and geting rejected most so our self esteem takes a bigger battering as a result.
Being asked is a lot better for your self esteem than asking.
Single women haven't been rejected, they just haven't been asked.
Single men, have been rejected. That's basically it.
oh u touched a nerve their girl... bitter single men vs. bitter single women... who is more bitter... I don't know... being a single man myself... not getting layed may be... I can't think of nothing else.
generally, the majority of the female population has more options than the male population.
People are bitter in proportion to the degree to which their desires are thwarted. More desire equals more bitterness.
probably because for guys, guys literally have to work for a partner, to get a partner, while for girls it just happens, the only work girls have to do it seems is work on their physical appearence thats it.