Fresh out of high-school, any ideas?

[Anonymous]

I'm fresh out of high-school (18) and feel like I need a relationship, like I'm happy but there's something missing, I've looked into dating apps but all of them seem there for hookups which I don't really want, any suggestions?

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+1 y

That ment to say eighteen lol

[Anonymous]

you need to realize that people get into relationships because they love each other. not because they feel like they need a relationship... that doesn't make any sense.

[Asker]

I know that? Just because I feel like/want a relationship doesn't mean I'm demanding one, there's just no one my area that I like or likes me back 🤷‍♂️

[Iron_Man]

Go to college or Join the United States Marine Corps if you’re from America. When you’re older you can meet a girl right now you got to take care of some business in your life

[Asker]

I have no drive to go to collage and I don't want to go just to not enjoy my time you know? And I'm from Canada, but I have thought of joining, they have a collage program, but I would have to be hellashure of myself haha

[Avicenna]

Get thee to a college campus

[JohnK123]

Find people ur age

[Asker]

Thats surprisingly hard, people my age suck, and the people that don't are my friends haha, at least where I live

[Guy13]

Get a job !!!

[Asker]

I have one :) part time, but I got one

[Guy13]

What i mean is no woman is going to date an unemployed guy... not one that you would want to date !! What's next for you?

[Asker]

Honestly I'm just saving money, seeing friends when I can, and meeting new people when I can

[Guy13]

There you go. At 18, the women are already scouting out for maturity. Some of them from 18-27 are dating guys 10-20 years older for that maturity. Now, look at those guys and determine what they have that those girls want... Ideas?

[Asker]

I've thought of that before, but also those people, at least from what I've seen, are not the kind of person I want to be, either there just weird, creepy, or are generally dicks, that is very good advice tho, ill definitely keep it in mind :) thank you

[Guy13]

I agree with you about those guys... and two of them are my Mentors at work 40 and 52 years old. I have to go out with them on Thursday Thursday Martini bar... It is so bad that I put grey streaks in my hair just trying to get girls my age to talk to me... You'll figure it out.

[Asker]

Thanks man, good luck too you too :)