Is my boyfriend a bad influence?

[Kileo123]

He smokes weed and ever since i live with him i been doing terrible at work

[WonderBell99]

How does your partner smoking weed have anything to do with your lack of concentration at work? I’m not trying to be impolite, I am merely trying to comprehend this situation.

I would only say someone is a bad influence if they pressurize you into doing things that makes you feel uncomfortable. Does he force or guilt trip you into smoking weed with him? What makes you say that he’s a bad influence on you? If you truly feel like it, you are probably not happy in this relationship and that should be a reason enough to end things with him.

[Kileo123]

His energy he seems to lack life lsuster

[WonderBell99]

Why did you start dating him in the first place, then? If you do not have any romantic feelings for him or are unhappy in this relationship, best to break up now. He probably won’t change unless he wants to by himself.

[litty]

We are who we surround ourselves with. That's why entrepreneurs hang out with other successful people.

[Guy13]

It sounds like it... He is taking your focus away?