My boyfriend (20M) and I (20F) have been together for over 3 years. Back in high school, I used to be okay with him having alcohol at parties, but lately I've felt myself starting to get bothered by it.
It's worth mentioning that there is no legal drinking age in my country, so it's normal and legal for there to be alcohol at parties. I've never had alcohol and I'm not planning on ever having it. I think it's pointless and unhealthy, but I wouldn't say that to anyone who does drink's face. I find myself having a more snappy attitude towards him, when I can see and/or smell that he has been drinking. I don't say anything, because I don't have the right to, and I feel awful for acting different towards him.
It's worth mentioning that there is no legal drinking age in my country, so it's normal and legal for there to be alcohol at parties. I've never had alcohol and I'm not planning on ever having it. I think it's pointless and unhealthy, but I wouldn't say that to anyone who does drink's face. I find myself having a more snappy attitude towards him, when I can see and/or smell that he has been drinking. I don't say anything, because I don't have the right to, and I feel awful for acting different towards him.
