Is it normal to constantly think about someone when you start to become physically intimate?

[Anonymous]

I started dating very late in life. All I think about is her, us fooling around, feeling her body, and the look in her eyes while we were groping each other.

How do I stop these obsessive thoughts? We haven't slept together yet but I feel like when we do I'm just going to be even more preoccupied with the thought of her.

Is this normal?

[Guy13]

For sure and if you did not then that would be a bad sign. Power under control comes to mind though. Let her know you think she is attractive subtly.-Mostly, it is about power under control !!

[Asker]

Not really room for subtlety left. Definitely not friends anymore and that pretense is completely gone.

Now it's just "yeah, this is happening"

[Guy13]

Great... good times. Christmas gift...

[FallonSamuels]

100%! I always think and obsess over a person after we get physically intimate

[LazerBean]

Yeah it's just hormones.

[Asker]

Thanks Lannette

[Wise4myage]

Yes, that's actually quite common.

[Asker]

Okay, I just want to make sure I'm not going crazy or that is a weird thing to be doing.