Is it bad to have romantic/sexual thoughts about someone else while in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I love being together with my boyfriend and all, but I have this other guy friend who is also really cute. He liked me at some point, which my boyfriend never knew about. One day he told me he had a sexy dream about me which kinda turned me on. Almost every night before bed I think about my guy friend and what it’s like to kiss him. But I don't know if this is considered cheating, We’re not actually smooching in real life.

[Rob70]

You are not the only person that has felt the way you do. I think a lot of people have thought of what it would be like to sleep with others. As long as you are only thinking about it or having a fantasies of doing it I wouldn’t consider it cheating

[boggboss]

Simply put how would u feel if your boyfriend had the same with female friends

[kylee2437]

If you and your guy friend have a thing for each other, then that’s not a guy friend. Kind of trashy hanging around a guy that has a thing for you while having a man.

[Anonymous]

If it were reversed and he was thinking about kissing another girl, how would you feel about it?

[Guy13]

It is bad to act on them.

[Guy13]

We all have these kinds of feelings. This is normal, however, to act snd violate another’s trust and basic relationship etiquette is wrong. Did you act upon it?

[In_Trance]

it happens to everyone

[Anonymous]

Tell them both what's up and see if they fight