When you are in a relationship, is it ever okay to sexually fantasize about someone else?
Or is it a form of emotional cheating?
Would you be okay with it if you found out that your partner fantasized about others?
Is it more okay to fantasize about celebrities rather than fantasizing about friends and coworkers?
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To all those who claim fantasizing is or will lead to emotional cheating... bullshit. To all those who claim they've never fantasized about another while in a relationship... bullshit. It's human nature. Being in a relationship does NOT mean you stop finding people of the opposite sex attractive, it does NOT mean your curiosity dies, it does mean you're no longer free to act on these thoughts. Emotional cheating isn't just fantasizing. When you have an actual bond with someone other than your partner, and you start to confide in this new person and tell them things you would never tell your partner, then it becomes cheating emotionally. Merely thinking about someone else in a sexual way does not make anyone a cheater! It's absolutely ridiculous! The only people who agree fantasizing is cheating are most likely too insecure with themselves and their sexual abilities to accept that its perfectly healthy. Uggghhhh! The immaturity and mindset of some people are so freaking irritating!!!
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