How long should you wait before being exclusive?

[Satarupa9511]

[CaptainOverthink]

I'd say that is less about some made up timeframe and more about how both of you look at the relationship.
- When you both are ready to commit to eachother and to whatever agreement or boundries that is supposed to bind you. I'm NOT talking about marriage, just a serious relationship.
- But it could just as easily be whenever you both want people to know you're taken or when you want to be official, like to befriend eachother families and so forth.

Point is; it's a decision you both make because it means something to you or to the world.

[Flatmanlewis]

Depends on each of you individually. I’d say within 4-6 weeks, depending how much you are seeing of each other. I think this depends heavily on being in a “real” relationship, and not some device/app/text/phone calls based long distance thing. I think that changes the rules considerably.

[Satarupa9511]

We met online and we are still talking online, he is visiting this week so let’s see!

[DishLady]

It depends on the lifestyle and personality of the two people involved. Are they mature enough to carry a relationship forward? When both are able to do that, then it’s generally also good to also become exclusive.


Some folks are exclusive from the start… there are mixed takes on that in the 21st century… to each their own.


When you’re ready you’ll know.

[Satarupa9511]

He came really strong in the beginning but I wanted to know him better before I went exclusive. Not that I am talking to other people, it’s only him but still I am wondering if I should have that conversation with him. Maybe he is not the same?

[Nikki1989]

If you feel the need to wait, you have met the wrong guy.

[Satarupa9511]

But shouldn’t we get to know that person first? I mean at least a month or so

[bobby_bush_eater]

There's no right answer for this. It's about both people's communication of their intentions. I'd hope the girl I've been on more than one dates isn't entertaining or casually dating other guys tho

[Satarupa9511]

We haven’t gone on any dates tho, but who should bring up this topic?

[bobby_bush_eater]

@Satarupa9511 it should be somewhat mutual but there's no right answer as who should bring it up. I'm more old fashioned and like to state my intentions early on (probably 2nd or 3rd date depending on the circumstances). A lot of guys may be afraid of coming off too strong. You could bring up the topic and state your view or implore him to share his or wait to see if he does

[Likes2drive]

I was wondering that too, I guess once you agree on being exclusive or have had sex depending on how long it takes for that. I certainly wouldn’t be seeing anyone else once it gets to that point

[Satarupa9511]

Sex is a long way away yet but I am wondering should I have that conversation or should he bring it up?

[Likes2drive]

I’m sure he would rather you bring it up instead

[dustybiker2]

Until they are the only person you think about. First person you want to share recent events with.

[exitseven]

Myself I would say a month. Most would disagree but if you are in, you are all in.

[Satarupa9511]

I know!! Technically I am exclusive cause I am not talking to anyone but I have another asked him for an opinion.

[JamesRandiDebates]

If the bitch lets me put my dick in her every day, we are exclusive. If she for some reason doesn't let me put it in her, I'll immediately find another bitch who will.

[In_Trance]

It's not something that has a traditional time frame on it. It's when you come to the realization that there could be something else there and it requires more of your attention.

[OddBeMe]

I would argue immediately after the first, if a second is planed.

[KrakenAttackin]

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[OddBeMe]

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[OddBeMe]

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[KrakenAttackin]

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[OddBeMe]

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[KrakenAttackin]

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[OddBeMe]

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[KrakenAttackin]

@OddBeMe. Way ahead of you pal.

[Anonymous]

However long you both feel comfortable with. But be careful, what if it never happens and you waited for no reason?

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

Waiting for the first time you are not going to share the

[boggboss]

How long your and your partner want to wait

[Satarupa9511]

We dont know. He says he is still not sure but it has only been a month

[boggboss]

Why is he not sure what's the issue and how long do u want to wait their are no set rules if u guys want somthing long term why wait if u are just looking for fun why be exclusive

[jahaims]

You should always be exclusive

[Satarupa9511]

I am lol🤣 I am exclusive. I am only talking to him about him I don’t know. And we haven’t had that conversation yet

[serious_miss419]

6-8 months. Gotta know each other first.

[Satarupa9511]

I agree. But 6-8 months? Wow that’s long.

[Starrrboy]

Like six weeks..

[VV3ZZY123]

About 3 weeks in my opinion

[shortster]

3-5 dates seems reasonable to me.

[Ellew4]

It depends on the person and how you feel.

[Satarupa9511]

I like him but I don’t know him properly yet

[sheikalana]

6 months.

[Satarupa9511]

Wow? Really? That long?

[sheikalana]

Yes, it takes time to know a person. Even after six months sometimes is not that clear.

[sheikalana]

By advise is always not to rush in relationships. Every year is important but if you're an adult the first year should be pretty significant and that's enough time to understand if you want to take things seriously and possibly marry them.

[sexyyBoy]

Yes baby