I dunno. Nowadays I am seeing more of the reverse in our “modern” culture.
I am good friends with a young guy who is a recovering sex addict (porn, multiple women, etc.). He went on a year hiatus from dating women and joined an anon group.
Now he’s dating a new girl but days he has refrained from having sex right away. He’s openly communicated to her he’s taking a different approach.
He said she’s still seeing other guys right now including another guy on the regular. He also says she’s been very receptive to his approach so far and they have been dating only for a month.
While his approach sounds noble and he’s in a unique situation I’m worried for him. This other girl is getting to “piece meal” a perfect man right now. She can get her emotional/attention needs met from him and her sexual/physical needs met from someone else. Best of both worlds for her.
It’s also to easy to label him a “beta male” (he isn’t) who will get long term friendzoned and she will never fully commit to him. If develops strong feelings for her this will end in disaster. Major blow to ego and likely make him relapse.
I told him that if she makes a move to not turn her down. Also said if he doesn’t make a move by month 2 of dating this could turn out bad for him.
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Women clearly aren't looking for a fictional Mr right 🤣 if they were why do women prefer getting with shitty men and then blame all men for that one man being shitty? It's like women are doing this too themselves and want an excuse to hate men. 🤷🏻♂️ as for men, a lot are preferring to stay single because of the way women are today. Those men who are still seeking relationships probably are looking for something in the moment. Those would be the shitty men who women keep blaming all men for. Seems to be a vicious cycle where the only ones who are winning are those who aren't playing the game
Actually, you nailed it. There’s a video called “the Economics of Sex” that claims thing are the way they are bc of the invention of contraceptives, which allows for “guilt free sex”, but most people know that guilt free sex is an urban legend. (in my opinion, better to wait for the right person than to go for the right now person.)
To be honest with you, this whole concept of Mr and Mrs right doesn't exist. Relationships are all about adjustments, compromise and sacrifice, understanding regardless of how similar the partner is.
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If anything, it seems flip flopped. A lot of girls are just dating easy dudes to manipulate and get over on. If a dude is too “in” his masculine frame, she’s either afraid or insecure, combative, and ultimately ruins her chances with a strong male figure.
Like if a guy has himself together and has high standards and sets clear and reasonable boundaries and she just wants to go out and get drunk and get hit on by a bunch of horny dudes, it’s clearly not gonna work, and that’s on her, not him. A lot of these modern women live for the attention. They don’t want to buckle down and commit to a man when they have the abundant options and the “grass is greener” mentality.
“There’s always a better one” they think, until the biological clock starts ticking and their best years start to fade behind them.
I think I'm seeing more the opposite, these days. Men are generally interested in settling down with a partner, while the women seem like they can't be bothered.
Boys are looking for Mrs Right Now.
Men are looking for Mrs Right.It’s not accurate at all there is no mr right Mrs right
Few women are hardly in their right mind at all lol 🧠 ♀️ and I don't swing for the men ♂️
So that leaves me to enjoy my singleness 😋✊🏻🫡Still very accurate, but it's tricky to find Right.
Not very. I’m not looking at all I’m focused on other stuff. My mom is looking to find a hot young guy to bang lol
It's a very old saying, Women and Men are not like that these days.
Back then a lot Girls were still Virgins in their 20s and 30s and i think us Guys were more Confident with Women.
Depends on the person. I want to have some kids soon and not be paying child support. So rn I'm dating to find a future mother to my kids.
Not anymore.. it's about even nowadays, women are also looking for " Mr right for the next six months " lol..
No. Most women are only looking for Mr. Right now.
More like women are looking to be ms always right 😂
Some are some aren't
cause most things are sooo wrong 😄
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