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If they are looking for more than just sex, it's true. When it comes to looking for future husbands, most women are more concerned with what a man can do for her or provide for her before she even worries about if he has a history of being a piece of shit. Sometimes they will even ignore that history. When it comes to looking for future wives, most men are more worried about if the woman is a good person or not, will be a good mother, is not the former town tramp or drug addict, etc.
Let's say you surveyed a hundred random women. Women who were looking for a future husband, not previously divorced, and had never experienced problems with a significant other being violent, drunk, or on drugs. You give them their choice between 3 guys that they find equally physically attractive. One guy is a mechanic, doesn't make a lot of extra cash but can pay his bills, is not in debt (besides the mortgage), but is a good guy with no shady past. Guy #2 is a famous rockstar or actor, can't stay off hard drugs, always cheats on his girlfriends eventually because women flock to him for that rockstar\Hollywood image\status bullshit. Third guy is a rich doctor, big house, nice car, but has a drinking problem and got arrested for getting drunk and beating his wife 10 years ago. Let's say these women know all that. They can pick one guy. Which guy is going to get the least picks and come in last place with most of the women? The mechanic. Every fucking time, unless the woman's ex was on drugs, a mean drunk, cheat on or beat on her. Most women are like dumb teenagers, they have to learn the hard way before they figure out how to pick a good guy.
u The best predictor of a person's future behavior is ther past behavior, so both sexes should care about their partner's past.
I would agree, I can't count how often I had dudes trying to dig in my past and critics me, trying to put me in some stupid "boxes" based on my past and me asking about their goals, dreams and ambitions in life smh
My first ex was the first man who didn't give a shit about my past and made clear that your past does not define who you're now, like yeah we learn from our past but we grow as a person too
Like the saying that says, men want to be her first, but women want his last.
I've heard that one before too.
I care about it all, past, present and future. We both need to and should be honest about sharing our pasts, how we are doing currently and what our future plans our.
The quote is loosely accurate in the most basic way. As both parts are true but don't cover the whole picture.
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I think If you’re a mature person, it’s not going to be this black and white.
These quotes aim to excuse male behavior. Little do they understand, if men are racking up a body count, they are probably doing it with women who also rack up a big count. If men care about women being “pure” or whatever, then they need to clean up their act.
I think that's quite true, I mean it can go both ways but overall I feel like most women look more towards the future in terms of security whilst men care more about a woman's past but that could just be generalising
Women give zero shits about a man's past if they have a good future.
You know how many girls say "I don't want a man who is a player or sleeps around" well quite a few. And then you know how many dump me when I tell them "I was a stripper, I'm in pornos, I've been with over 200 women I can't even remember them all" zero. None. I've never once had a girl dump me.
So honestly it's bullshit.
It's just bullshit opinion trying to masquerade itself as marriage insight.
You can't make a housewife out of a whore, sure. But "family" is more than just a marriage certificate and buying an asset together.
As I understand it, a man wants to be a woman's first; a women wants to be a man's last. I suppose that similar enough to make both statements true.
u way too simplistic... therefore not accurate at all
you just can't have one without the other... not if you want to make pertinent decision making
Nah, I disagree. I care about her past, present, and future.
Women definitely care about a man’s past and present.
I care about a man's past and his future. And care about creating a lineage and securing provision. I care about all of those things.
Both genders seem to care about past and future with their partners
It's wrong. Both partners care about the future, with a look at the past as a partial indicator of what might happen in the future.
It's very true. Women dont want a man that doesn't have anything going for him later on in life and mem dont want a woman with a past. Specifically a woman with a sexual past. Men and women want different things
Ye its true, I won't find her valuable enough to date if she slept with a lot of guys in her past.
I mean… not really. That’s way oversimplified. If you’re smart, you care about both regardless of your gender.
Absolutely correct
A lot of truth in this.
Overly simplistic.
Women’s past as in how much dick been in her?
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