Is it weird to think about someone you love all the time?

[Anonymous]

Maybe not a full 24 hours but I find myself thinking about the guy I like a lot. Distance kinda sucks and I often wonder if he thinks of me as much (he feels the same for me)

[VinnyMac]

I don't think it's weird at all. I find it sweet that girls think this way sometimes because I used to wonder the same thing as a guy. In the main relationships I've ever been in I always found this to be the case.

It can be really difficult when a relationship ends and you continue to find yourself thinking about an ex. After time when you find yourself in a new relationship often you'll experience the same feelings. For myself I experienced those feelings through crushes, friendships and each relationship I had until I finally met my Fiancèe who I've been with for 8 years and now have a 4 year old son.

Love at times can work in mysterious ways. You may love someone even after you breakup, but it no longer is a romantic love on both ends until you find yourself in a new relationship. I think with each and every relationship there is love until that relationship ends and when it lasts and continues too then hopefully that love that you have for each other will lead you to both think about each other as often as you can.

[DaveJord]

Yeah I totally think about my girlfriend all the time... I mean like at least 10 to 12 times throughout the day. We live about an hour and half apart and we see each other every weekend for the last four months and talk to each other every day on the phone.

The only thing weird about it is how much it doesn't feel weird. Which is crazy because I am 45 years old and have dated a lot of women and been married once... but I never had this type of relationship with a women and I am enjoying every minute of it. :-)

[LexiLuv91]

You can't put a label on the different feelings that are brought on by love. This question can't be answered 100% accurately and no answer to it will be right or wrong. Love is the most mysterious, unsolved, confusing bit in life. In my own opinion, just go with the motions. Keep thinking those thoughts and take it a step at a time. You can never go wrong in love when you do what feels right.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Not weird to me. I'm not a person that loves easily. But I do love hard so if I do actually end up falling, I really, REALLY fall. Last person I loved like that I literally thought about constantly.

[Patmedley26]

I will tell you from personal experience. The feeling is probably pure and innocent to you but overtime it'll only begin to hurt you if you ponder on anyone or anything for too long. That time can be better spent on things like your hobbies, education, career, etc

[RobT312]

It’s normal, it happened to me to the point that It was a little obsessive... I made compromises and changed my daily schedule just to be with this person more

[ObscuredBeyond]

Every day, my mind occasionally drifts back to my exes. Two of them in particular. One's dead; the other's in China. So... basically, the same thing as dead.

[ItsMeElliana]

no its not. love is beautiful. distance does suck, but if you both put in effort for your love to work out in the future. it will be worth. :)

[ohshee]

Not to weird. I've been there before . I might even be there now. Do you get to talk to him on the phone or on line. That would be a Good thing

[Phoenix-gb]

Nope, sounds normal to me, hope you sort the distance issue out soon.

[RedStiletto88]

Oh it’s definitely normal! But eventually you remember to think about everything else too haha.

[skyeee01]

i think about my boyfriend 24/7 lmao, i think it's pretty normal :)

[Cjbruser]

Hmmm. It sounds more like lust rather than "love" too me hunny.

You sure its not just infatuation?

[OddBeMe]

The distance is prob why you’re thinking about him so much. My wife and I see each other constantly and we try not to think of each other. It’s that bad. Help us. Please.

[Nik_92]

definitely not dear , In addition you should try for friendship with him

[Aze36912]

Probably u don’t hav much to do. Try to keep urself occupied with other things. It’s not weird but that’s how our mind works i guess. Have a few goals n work towards them. If u r disciplined, u wouldn’t think all day about him.

[exitseven]

It can be normal. I dated somebody that totally took over my brain.

[JakeS00]

Not really, you just genuinely care about the other person.

[zagor]

I was very obsessed with a girl for a while and it disrupted my life and made me miss out on a lot of great girls around me.

[Jay3344]

I do the same. I try and not think about it too much but I do feel like it’s very common to think about your SO when they’re not around.

[Anonymous]

No, not weird. I used to be like this too. But when one forgets one's love, she realizes that this thing is nonsense

[Babygirl_S]

Not weird. I also think about someone I love all the time. I'm literally obsessed.

[DangItBobby]

I figured that it tends to happen when I’m bored lol, when I keep myself occupied I hardly think of anyone

[TrillXHippy]

This is why being anonymous should be taken away. Questions like this

[driven159]

that's the way love should be and be thankful you both have it

[FiguringItOutGirl]

Definitely normal but not very healthy

[Citizenkirk]

It's obsessive, but very romantic.

[Nagahime]

It's pretty normal, no worries.

[fonduegirl]

Distance makes the heart grow fonder

[Wise4myage]

I thought that was normal?

[noohair]

That is what love is all about.

[Waldoe]

it is what LOVE does to you... very normal

[prettyboy57886]

It's absolutely normal

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not weird at all

[sheikalana]

That's normal.

[EaterPeter]

Not weird

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[UdontNeedtoknow]

It's fine.

[RomulusToda]

No it's not

[Anonymous]

I'm sure he does