Is it normal to be thinking about your crush all the time?

[Anonymous]

i feel not normal for thinking aout him all the time , but I can't control it, he just pops into my mind without permission? help? :(

[Kythe]

To quote 16 Candles: that's why they're called "crushes". :)

The best cure for a crush, if it's unwanted, is time. Try concentrating on doing other things, and being with friends.

One thing that can work, if you can manage it, is to get to know him better. You may find your fantasy version of him and the reality are quite different.

[Anonymous]

Yes and sometimes you crush on someone for so long you fall in love with them and thats all you'll ever think about and theyll never get off your mind believe me I've been there. And after awhile everything will remind u of them and thats called love.

[Asker]

are you sure? how do you know its not infautation?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I've been where u r and thats how i feel in love with my best friend i started crushing on her before we became friends and then we started talking and got really close and became best friends and over time i started catching feelings for her then eventually fell in love with her thats how ik. I've been there believe me it sucks.

[Asker]

but did you waste your time or was it actually worth it? because thats what im afraid of , liking someone who doesn't like you back

[Opinion Owner]

Well she told me she liked me but she alsos got a bf so it makes things compiicated wnd I don't know anymore i feel like she doesn't i haven't really asked her cause im kinda scared to know the true answer.

[Asker]

damn well if she reallllyyy liked you she wouldv left her bf already for you, is there any other advice you can give?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah be careful you dont want to get hear broken belive me it sucks dick and its not that easy because we dont live in the same state anymore she lives in iowa i live in illinois. So thats why and we both said weed never do long distance because it would be to hard it already sucks ass cause i haven't seen her in two years and i miss her so much.

[Asker]

you should really tell her how you feel

[Asker]

at least to get it off your chest

[Opinion Owner]

I already have and she didn't respond until i changed the subject so I don't know.

[Letstrend]

Aaawh.. That's adorable. It isn't called a crush for nothing girl! Don't you even worry about it, it's not weird or desperate at all. All girls go trough things like that. If you only knew.. ;)

[USAF_Fighter]

When I first started liking my current girlfriend, she was all I could think about. Everything reminded me of her. Now, she's still all I ever think about. I guess it's called love. Good luck with everything.

[TheUglyDuckling]

Yes, that's quite normal, nothing to worry about.