Would you be excited to get to the 8th date with someone?

[lilyanony1]

I'm at date number 8 I really like him.
Weve not met each others friends or family yet but we still talk everyday. And have things to laugh about...

[DizzyDesii]

Thats dragged out in my opinion. I talk to someone 1 to 3 months before agreeing to a date... whether we talk as a classmate just in class, a coworker just at work, or whatever online or through private phone calls. Then when I agree to the date, that one date is enough to decide if we’ll be official by the end of it because I already know the main stuff I need to know about them. The first date is mainly enjoying eachothers company and hoping to seal things with a kiss. I dont need to ask things like if their favorite color or if they want kids because thats already come up in casual convo just from knowing them the first 1 to 3 months at school/work/church/etc. I don’t do 2nd “unofficial couple” dates. The second date is just a regular date in the actual relationship. I know it differs for everyone but thats how its always worked with me. I have to know someone for a while to avoid feeling trapped because if we become official and i’m not happy, i feel trapped. Its easier to end things while unofficial and have no regrets

[DizzyDesii]

But im happy for you

[lilyanony1]

We met on hinge... Tbh most people I know don't actually wanna be on those things talking for too long. I met him when I was dating someone else we were talking for 3 weeks then I ended things with that guy before it got serious.
We went to wetherspoons pub on our first date... And I won't lie it was the best date I've ever had, there was sexual and mental compatiblity.
Joking and just enjoying each others company. Over the weeks it's been the same.
Yes he kind of pissed me off being late one time but he's the type of person that I can't stay angry at for long, because well he tries his hardest to get into my good books...
He's just an easy going chill kinda guy. I think my family would really like him... My grandparents might not be pleased that we're an interracial couple but I think they kind of expect it now since I've dated different races in the past.

[DizzyDesii]

I don't know what hinge is, but if its a dating site or app, we’d exchange numbers or discord by the 2nd week. We’d chat by phone calls through those for a month. Then we’d video chat the second month. If all goes good, we can go out the third month. Like i said, it varies for everyone but thats always worked for me. Now if its someone I've known in person, the date happens sooner since we skip the video chat month. But either way, i have to know someone at least 30 days before i go out on a date with em

[menina]

I would if I really liked him and if I believed that we could date.

[d3n0939]

Seems like things not going any further beyond dates

[lilyanony1]

Huh?

[OlderAndWiser]

Congratulations and good luck!

[lilyanony1]

Thank you x

[SteveSmith1985]

Of course I would. That's exciting! 🙂

[Screenwriter]

You're dating in person? That would be exciting. Good luck.

[RealMarek]

Yes, that is exciting. I hope it keeps going well for you.

[Zolly99999]

Yes if things are going well why not.. who says there has to be a time table on dating?

[Andres77]

Yay!!!

cheering you on!

[lilyanony1]

Thank you, we seem to be coming to a like mindedness...
He was just as happy as I was when we worked out the next date will be number 8 but does meeting for a quickie count?

[ArtemisSilver]

I don't count them after the third 😅

[Surely]

Soon be planning the wedding! LOL 😆

[lilyanony1]

Woah! That's intense!

[eagle1951]

beats me never counted