Too demanding or not willing to change?

I asked my boyfriend what made him ask me out and he said hope and infatuation what he said he meant by that was he hopes im exactly like him one day he wants me to think like him, act like him and be as active and do what he loves. He thinks I'm crazy because im sensitive and emotional he thinks im annoying and selfish he's called me rude for abruptly stopping our hook up because i was insecure about a joke where he made in the past calling me loose he also thinks im lazy. He gets upset when i dont listen to him he wants me to wear a necklace with his name on it 24/7 and says im mean when i take it off he doesn't want me to wear crop tops, listen to artists like cardi, he made me delete my social media always comments on how i spend my time he doesn't want me going out to clubs with my friends cause its me acting single he doesn't want me to wear makeup asks me to not come to him all the time for comfort or to vent or get motivation cause he feels like he's with a child and he thinks im lazy sometimes when im tired and dont wanna do something i feel like he doesn't actually even want me like he won't be happy if i dont act like him eat like he does or am as physically active as him is he being too much or am i not willing to change

Too demanding or not willing to change?
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