Situationship or Stay Patient?

[plsimastar]

I met a guy around 5 months ago on a night out and we went back to his to hook up. A couple of weeks later, we ending up seeing each other a second time and then he mysteriously blocked me. About 2 months later he unblocked me, messaged me and we met up again, he explained that he was seeing someone else and it didn’t work out. Since then, we’ve only seen each other one more time since he’s been working out of town, and he’s not a big texter AT ALL. It’s clear that he’s not ready for a relationship and I’m not sure that I am either (I’m only 6 months single) but I really like him. We get on really well and have such a good time when we’re together. I just can’t understand if he actually likes me and isn’t ready or if he’s just messing me around.

[SuburbanBarbie]

Ditch him. Him blocking you was sketchy because he was obviously trying to get serious with the girl he said he was just seeing , OR was already seeing her , or courting her when he hooked up with you. You don’t need that baggage , and quite frankly you’ll find someone better

[DishLady]

He probably won't end up with you… you have him everything too soon….

[ProbablyClueless]

It's pretty clear that you two are just messing around. Neither of you seem to be ready for a relationship at the moment.

Do you actually want to get into a relationship one day or are you just having fun?

[plsimastar]

I would like to get into a relationship eventually, but at the moment I’m happy to just go with the flow and take it slow/casual and then see if it evolves into a relationship or not.

[ProbablyClueless]

Then my vote would be to keep things simple and uncomplicated. If you don't need and answer now, don't ask for one now, you know?

Some of my most frustrating romantic interactions have been ones where the woman is making things super complicated because she's just doing too much and her intentions aren't clear. She's pushing both into and away from the connection at the same time and her intentions aren't clear.

[spartan55]

You already gave it up for free. The chances of any sort of a committed relationship with that guy are very small.

[Avicenna]

He just wants sex. And when you hook up with a guy, it's usually all he ever wants.

[plsimastar]

Even if he does ‘coupley’ things whilst you’re together?

[Avicenna]

Correct

[Anonymous]

You might as well just fool around at this point.

[Iron_Man]

I never even heard of a Situationship. It’s a new yuppie trend following sheep. I hate it.