Situationship not relationship?

[Anonymous]

Why is it so hard?

[BCRanger10]

Why is... what so hard? A "situationship"? My opinion? Remove that stupid word from your vocabulary. EVERYBODY SHOULD. We'll all be a lot better off if we do. It implies that the involved parties are on-again/off-again, not really committed, using each other, not sure of what they want, aren't willing to take a stand or make sacrifices, and many other issues, I'm sure.

A "situationship" is hard because it's easy. What do I mean? I mean it's physically easy, but emotionally manipulative, vague, and taxing. It's something that's trying too hard to be something that it 1) can't be and 2) doesn't want to be anyway: an actual relationship.

Why is a relationship so hard? Because of "situationships". Even if the word "situationship" (again, I hate, hate, hate, hate, HATE that word!) didn't exist until recently, the concept and mentality certainly have for quite some time now.

[Flatmanlewis]

That term is dumb. It’s an attempt to put a label of legitimacy on a undecided and undefined interaction.

[Anonymous]

Better question is why are you struggling in one in the first place? If he’s not committing then if I were you I’d stop messing around with a pointless situationship and move on to something more committed. This is all time you’ll never get back, you do realize that right?

[laly520]

there is no such thing as a situationship

either a real relationship or passing of time

[Anonymous]

Because it’s so undefined and there is no true commitment. I don’t think I could handle it. The uncertainty would make me crazy.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t even know what that means a Situationship. I’ve never heard that before in my life

[Anonymous]

Situationship is basically one night stands

[Booklover_90]

Because it’s not a relationship.