Is this a red flag? On our second date he was running his hands up and down my entire legs and said my skin was really soft. ?

[Anonymous]

[20yearsolder]

A red flag for what? If you didn't like it why didn't you stop him. If you enjoyed it then it's not a red flag

[KloexoxJayne]

Lmfao my boyfriend of 12 years does that on a regular basis, still to this day 😂 take it as a compliment and as a bonus he will often tickle/rub your skin which is sooo relaxing after a long day lol

[LazerBean]

Yes, that's incredibly forward and inappropriate. I would dump immediately.

[Gent207-2]

Hoist the red flag!

The man is only down for just one thing and it's not a serious relationship.

[Vanidal]

How interested he was to you as a whole person? Was he mostly seem to be obsessed with your skin?

[Asker]

Yeah he seems interested in me as a person too. He’s obsessed with how I look a lot though I notice. He compliments my beauty but also my brains and stuff too. I don't know with men lol

[Vanidal]

Hmmm. Maybe you need more information, more dates. Maybe he just did not know what else to talk about. Maybe anxiety kicked him in.
Interact more, especially in day to day basis. Preferably in offline setting.
Seek repeated pattern.

[AviatorTom]

Why would you think that's a red flag. It's an obvious indication that he finds you attractive, and desirable.

[FilmGuy93]

It's only a red flag if you didn't make it abundantly clear that you didn't want to be touched.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. Did you tell him to stop?

[Asker]

No but I thought it was weird. He’s really into how pale I am and how soft my skin is.

[BarryLiverstone]

Usually us guy have harder bodies so I can see why he likes touching your legs. If you didn’t say anything he will assume you liked his hands. Do others not touch your skin?

[In_Trance]

How would this be a red flag?