On our 3rd date he kept rubbing his hands all over my legs and back and kept touching my hair a lot and kissing my shoulders. Red flag?

[Anonymous]

I told him I just wanted to sit there and didn’t want to be that touchy. He kept trying to kiss me while I was trying to talk. He kept grabbing my leg and putting it on his leg and I told him to please stop kissing my back and touching my hair. Also he was touching my boobs a little bit and asked if I was wearing a bra. And this was all on a park bench after we had dinner. 😡 I’m furious and feel disgusted. I was mad when we were walking back and told him I didn’t want to see him anymore and blocked him right away. Was he being too handsy or am I just picky about this?

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+1 y

Also he kept asking me to send him pics and videos of myself from my social media. And told me to not wear makeup next time he sees me. And that I look 100 times better without makeup. And that I have the nicest and most pale skin he’s ever seen. Controlling af.

[Fireguy17]

He didn't respect you or listen to you.
Myself I would move on.
His behavior probably won't get any better.

[SiberFox]

You're an adult, you get to choose where the line is drawn.

[YoHoeRose]

Red flag🚩🚩🚩 he has bo respect for your boundaries now, don't expect that to change

[AsaKyo]

Yeah, never go out with him again
Next time it might be the "r" word

[Asker]

My hair was messed up and he just kept touching and touching and I felt like a mess when I got home. 😠

[Biancam13]

Definite red flag. He needs to understand what consent is.

[Guy13]

Yes... rule number one is to understand No and Stop when she says it !!!

[Guy13]

When i was younger... if one the clowns that were dating my sisters did that... and got back to me then I would be having a "talk" with that guy. Maybe, I'm being over the top... if you have sisters then it is different...

[Paul09]

You tell him something you don't want him to do and he keeps doing it. Definitely a huge red flag. He only wants sex. How on earth did he get to a third date? Can't respect boundaries. Wow

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, that sounds like a redflag. Disrespecting people's boundaries is a redflag.

[Anonymous]

No doesn't mean no. If every guy accepted no as no then no guy would ever get laid. No means work on the neck, the nipples and try again in 5 minutes.🤣🤣🤣

[Jamie05rhs]

Yep. Definitely a red flag. You were right to block him.

[JPresidente]

Yep, he’s a horndog with no boundaries.

[spartan55]

Merv the Perv lives.

[Chaser3232]

Dangerous!