Crush on a guy I’ve never talked to. I have no classes with him and barely see him. Should I just let it go?

[Anonymous]

I have 2 other guys interested in me that I talk to on the regular but Im kinda caught on this one guy I’ve never even talked to. I don’t like the other 2 guys but i want a boyfriend and I can’t just keep rejecting everyone who likes me but I never talk to the guys I’m interested in. I saw this guys article in the school newspaper and I thought it was really amazing I though whoever wrote this must be really really talented, later I saw him in a soccer game and realized he was also super cute. I’m not obsessed with him or something but I can’t help but feel id want to get to know him and I’ve developed a bit of a crush on him etc. He’s a grade above me and our school is huge (meaning I only see him at soccer games.) Is this just a superficial shallow crush and should I let it go? If not how should I go about talking to him?

[lightbulb27]

People you don’t know are more attractive because… you don’t know them. Once you do… you’ll find aspects you don’t like. Learning to love someone and their flaws and wanting best for them… thst be love. Everything else infatuation.


That said… talk to him so you check the box and don’t have regrets.

[Aerolyn]

Either make your move or let it go, those are literally your only two options.

[AsaKyo]

If this is a high school thing, then please just know that high school romances are very overrated

[Dinosaursandanime65]

[Anonymous]

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