What’s going with him? How can I move on? I kinda have a crush on him?

[Anonymous]

I first encountered him at work, and we happened to be attending the same school at the time. He possessed an unpleasant demeanor, being both unkind and distant. After a few months, I made an effort to move on from the situation. However, I unexpectedly encountered him again at work, and although we never spoke to each other, I made a conscious effort to ignore his presence. Interestingly, during our time in school together, he rarely visited my workplace. However, now that we are no longer attending the same school, he occasionally comes to my job, albeit infrequently.

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I didn’t mean infrequently I meant often but not as often

[firenine909]

Realize he sounds like an asshole and you hate them and move on


What do you like about him? I think you find his masculine attitude to be hot and if you don’t want to put yourself up to be disappointed I’d move on but if you want to have fun with him flirt with him and shoot your shot

[Asker]

His attitude sucks and he isn’t cute

[firenine909]

Then what makes you have a crush on him? I didn’t get that part

[Asker]

I don’t even know why I like him

[firenine909]

I’m assuming you find his physical appearance and his rude attitude hot. Turned on by the fact he’s a dick and think he’s got big balls

Well if you have a crush is it you want to date him or kiss/fuck him? Could answer that question

[Asker]

I don’t want to kiss him or fuck him. Don’t do think he’s physical cute.

[firenine909]

What are you crushing about of him?

[Asker]

I don’t even know that’s the crazy part

[firenine909]

Then why don’t you flirt with him and tease him a bit? Get him a little riled up and have fun with this. Try to make him take initiative and follow suit

[Asker]

I think he’s married or dating someone. I wanna move on.

[firenine909]

Then stop seeing him and realize you don’t like him

[Asker]

Thanks

[spartan55]

So this has never shown any interest in you and now you think he is this the big turning point? That he 'comes to your job more frequently' (whatever th that means)? Am I reading this correct? Smh... oh my... 🙄

[Asker]

I never said he’s interested in me. I want to move on and forget about him.

[Alex-Snow]

It does not seem like he has the same interest in you as you do with him. Maybe move on? Ur thoughts?

[Joker_]

find someone else to crush on