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I have been involved with a guy for 3-4 months, but now I want to move on. I don't believe that being together would work out for us because we are very different and belong to different races. How can I move on? I keep encountering things that remind me of him, and I find myself constantly thinking about him non-stop, day and night. It's becoming quite bothersome.
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He has many red flags
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Here are some things you can try to move on:
- Limit or cut off contact as much as possible. Seeing him or talking often will make it harder to move on.
- Spend more time with friends and family who can provide a distraction. Do fun activities to get your mind off him.
- Let your emotions out - have a good cry if needed. Journal about your feelings to release them.
- Give yourself a set healing period, say 30 days, to completely focus on moving forward. Unfollow/block him on social media if it helps.
- Do things to boost your confidence like working out, pampering yourself, changing your look. Remind yourself of your great qualities.
- With time, the reminders of him will hurt less. Be patient - it takes weeks or months sometimes to fully move past a breakup.
- Try dating others if you're ready. A new connection can help you see there are other great guys out there.
- Accept it's normal to think about him but don't dwell. Redirect your thoughts when he pops up.
I know it's hard hun but stay strong. Focus on you and lean on friends/family. You've got this - soon he'll just be a memory. You deserve to be happy so don't look back!
I get the very different part but I got to say I don't think the different races part matters at all. If you think of him so much and you like him that much then there must be something there. But if you really think the differences are that bad and you will never work out in the long run then you just need to talk to him and be honest. It isn't going to be easy but that is all you can really do.
He has red flag also
Oh well then end it but if it has been 3-4 months you got to let him know it's ending, guy deserves to know that it is over. Just explain you are different people like you said, don't need to mention the red flag if you don't want to
We’re not dating and also I think he’s seeing someone
His red flag is he has no respect for women and he bully women with a certain skin tone
If he seen someone else then I guess it's not a big deal. But if you're together or not you've been talking for a while in my mind. I would like the courtesy if I were him, except if I was seeing someone else obviously
Didn't knows the bully post till after that reply. If that's the case, you probably don't owe him anything
Sorry that post wasn’t my mind
Yeah that post about seeing someone isn’t my mind. I don’t know why it’s popping up.
*Mine
And he’s childish and silly.
Well, if you're seeing these red flags, I think you have every right to move on. I'm not saying you need to have a heavy discussion with him. Just tell him it's through and move on. If he's a jerk block him. I just feel when you've been talking that long. Even a jerk deserves to be told. Goodbye Before blocking or ignoring. You don't need to explain it to him. Just tell him it's done
Wdym certain skin tone? Why?
@Tharithi I don’t know but it seem like he targets women with a certain skin tone to pick on
What skin are they
@Tharithi similar skin tone to Doja cat
why u like them
I don’t even know