I have a crush on this guy. Would telling him I like him help me move on?

[Anonymous]

I think I might have feelings for him. He used to be rude and mean, but now he smiles and acts goofy. When I talk to him, he smiles and laughs a lot, even though I'm not being funny. I want to tell him that I like him and so I can move on, but he's always acting silly and goofy. A few months ago in class, it sounded like he mumbled "I like you."We barely talk.

[teamvic]

You want to tell him you like him in hopes you get rejected so you can't move on?

[Asker]

If I get rejected or not I just want to move on

[teamvic]

Right but that's what I'm not understanding, so let's say he says he does like you, you'll still move on?

[Asker]

Yes because he’s toxic for me

[teamvic]

Then I dont see the point in telling him

If anything. I'm not saying he will but it could just give him more confidence and a cocky attitude.

No need to even say anything really. What will help you move on is avoiding him and not being around him

[Asker]

We go to the same school and I see him at my job sometimes.

[Anonymous]

You might aswell admit your feelings like you said.