My Girlfriend cheated on me before with a DJ. They kissed in the guys car. I know looking through our partners phones is wrong but I honestly did to just see what she says about me to other people then I found some other things instead. Her talking with her ex about how she kissed the DJ and stuff. Not gonna lie it really hurt because I really didn't think she was the type to do that plus she's telling this to her ex and I'm like "wtf" . I called the relationship off. She was sad, and was apologetic and all the emotional stuff. She was like that for a whole week asking for forgiveness and then me being the teddy bear I am I forgave her. We got back together. I promised to not go through her phone but then I ended up doing it again. This time around I could see that she's been deleting her texts but then I found something interesting. She was telling her friend how she went out on some night and was super drunk and then called her crush for 2 hours. I go to the crushes contact and then I see a text from the guy saying that he really enjoyed their conversation and that she should call him whenever she's super drunk.. My girlfriend replied by saying that he should also call her when he drunk. Honestly I don't know how to feel about this and I honestly want to trust this girl but she's making it really hard for me rn. What should I do?
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