My girlfriend talks to a guy who likes her. Should I be worried?

[david]

She says they're just friends, but I know he has feelings for her. Am I overthinking, or is this something I should address with her?

[Finchie40]

Do you have Girl friends’? If not , make some , never let a girl disrespect you that way , whether she is cheating on you or not , a good girlfriend would not put herself in that situation if she actually loves and cares about you as her boyfriend , and she would respect you , the same way she wants you to respect her , This is why you should of addressed this shit with her before committing to her and making her your girlfriend. But since you didn’t , you dug your own grave on this one. So the only way out of that grave is by you doing the same thing that she is doing to you , Go make some girl friends’ if your girlfriend makes any comments about you doing so , just tell her What? It’s ok for you to have guy friends’ but not ok for Me to have Girl friends’ ? It doesn’t work that way whatsoever , so get over yourself.

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

Yep.

Dug your own grave,

did not set boundaries.

Dont be a simp.

State that you don't like it and think it's disrespectful,

The only way you can have friends of the opposite sex is if there is zero attraction on both sides, otherwise it's not friends, it's options.

You need to start preparing for the cold. Winters coming lol.

Don't make threats or ask for things.

State how you feel about it, 8f she asks questions like "what should I do" etc, don't answer it's a trap, because any answer is manipulation or surrending your frame.

State how you feel in such a way the answer is clear... Then take action on how things currently are.

Your not happy about it, don't make threats, take action.

Pull back, start looking after yourself, prepare for what's coming, loneliness and isolation, get your head right and your shit in check 👌💪

[texascollegegirl]

Maybe think about why you would be worried and why not. My boyfriend was very jealous of this one sweet Black boy who liked me, but he was also fixated because of his own insecure and the fact the Black was so much bigger than he was. Then he pushed all that info on me and kind of instigated me discovering his BBC porn collection and going to that Black. We're still together and he is so much happier with the fact I live the lifestyle he fantasizes about, cheating with big dick Blacks all the time, but him not having to worry about it or know at all. Too many guys want to control girls' natural sexual desires and the fact we are evolved to want bigger dick some of the time when we are most fertile, rather than just not worrying about us fulfilling our desires so long as we are good to them, too.

[Anonymous]

I do believe so. I've heard this story so many times from other girls. They've got this guy friend who's intrested in them but they've a boyfriend. A few months later they are telling you they are dating this guy a month after they broke up with their boyfriend but then you hear from someone else that she was cheating with the other guy, sleeping with both guys for months before moving on with the other guy.

I'm married and have tons of guys looking to slide into my DMs but no way.

[ohsheeT]

Is she happy does she come home to you everyday that you love you did she tell you she loves you this you hold your hand has she giving you any reason whatsoever to make you feel that you can't trust her or respect her

If you're mind is feeding into things and making you think different because of your own issues of trust it's going to end up destroying what you have

[McLlovin]

Yes. Tell her you are not comfortable with you being around him and want her to stop talking to him. Right there in that moment she’s choosing what she values more. If she says no, well that’s your answer. Dump her and move on. If a woman really values you and her relationship she will bend backwards to keep it. She might not even truly understand but she is subconsciously choosing that dude over you. Respect yourself king and dont be trodden on

[mojito]

It's normal to feel uneasy, but trust her if she says they’re just friends. If it bothers you, talk to her openly about your feelings. She may not realize how it affects you, and a calm conversation can clear things up without making accusations.

[david]

Thank you! You're right, it's best to speak clearly and calmly. Trust is important, but I shouldn't ignore my feelings.

[FlirtGuy]

It's understandable to feel uneasy if another guy likes her, but if she says they’re just friends, trust her words for now. However, it’s worth having an honest conversation about how it makes you feel. Communication is key in addressing concerns without jumping to conclusions.

[david]

It's best to calmly talk and share how I feel.

[teguy]

Trust your gut. If she’s talking to him knowing he likes her, it could be a red flag. It's important to talk to her about how you feel. Be honest, but stay calm ask her if she's comfortable with the situation and if it’s affecting your relationship

[david]

Thanks! As you said, I shouldn't ignore my instincts, but it's best to speak calmly and clearly. I hope I can understand the situation better this way.

[Abbycado]

How do you know he has feelings, or are you just assuming?

If they are just friends then you need to trust her unless you have a reason not to.

[Truthatanycost]

If there is ever a time where you need to tell your partner how to treat you, then it is all over...

[itsannalee]

Just because he likes her it doesn’t mean she likes him too. But if she respects you, she will keep distance with him.

[MzAsh]

Well there’s nothing you can do if he likes her. Doesn’t mean she likes him back. So you either trust her, or you don’t.

[Nikki1989]

You are 39. It is about time to move past the immature insecurities.

[Chillguy53]

his huge cock is in your girlfriend, she's moaning too it too

[SolitarySolace]

Yes, you should because she will end up leaving you for him. Mine as well just let her. Youd be better off

[Anonymous]

As a girlfriend I would not put myself in this situation. That's where his problem is.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Is this a serious question? You're 39 years old. What do you think?

[Peridot25]

Better address it. Tell her your concerns and hopefully she understands and cut contact.

[Alex-Snow]

It is all about trust. How is your relationship and sex life with her?

[Staximus]

If she hangs out with the guy then you have a problem for sure

[LiamJHayden]

Without knowing you or her or him it is difficult to say. How do you know he's into her?

[serious_miss419]

Do you have any female friends and does she have any male friends besides him?

[KrakenAttackin]

He is your replacement, don't kid yourself.

[Crazzyyworld]

I don’t think you should. If she choose you she will be with you

[Crazzyyworld]

But if she is selfish person, then dump her

[exitseven]

I would keep an eye on this guy.

[dudeinohio]

Yes. Be afraid. Discuss with her.

[seeyounexttuesday]

You 100% nip this in the bud.

[Kayleigh2005]

💯 percent

[Emily12344]

Bad situation

[Jmmmfi4]

You as a guy should yes this is a problem

[ThebestIndian]

Nope.