My Crush Knows I like Him!! And Now he's Avoiding me?

[Anonymous]

i have a crush on this guy and texted him on social media just saying normal stuff, Instead his bestie (who i use to have a crush on) reply's and says "fuck off you hoe he doesn't want you in his life" i said i don't like him and we started arguing. The next day i text my crush again and apologize, but its his friend again and tell me to fuck off, he asked me what i wanted and i said "i'm not telling you cos its not XXXX (crush's name)" 2 seconds later my crush says "sorry i changed my password" so i believed it was my crush because he became really nice as he is usually , i even asked for proof and he sent 3 selfies of him, he asked me what i wanted to tell him and i asked him how would he react if someone had a crush on him, he said depends, so i used myself as an example and all he said was "lol ok" after a few minutes of texting each other, i said i had to go, so i said bye. He replied but instead his friend was "hahaha you just got playedd!!" meaning it was his friend the entire time on his account! so i quickly said i never admitted i liked him, i only used myself as an example, but he already knew i liked XXXX. i then texted his other account saying that i didn't like him, he didn't reply. the next day at school he kept ignoring me and avoiding me... we don't talk usually as we r not friends, but he use to at least smile at me and look at me, now he doesn't as if he was disappointed in me, he doesn't even glance at me. At first there was a chance he liked me cos of his cute smiles and stuff, now there is no chance... I don't know what to do because if he did like me, i ruined it for us, cos i said i don't like him. i kinda regret saying i don't like him but then at the same time i didn't want him to know because every guy I've liked has always found out and had hated me, i always spill the beans and get hated, at least 3 people think i like him now even tho i keep denying it. we're both 14. please help me i don't know what to do...

[babylolita]

Confront him. If you like him so much, stop him in the hallway and say that you want to talk. Talk about the situation and his friend, and if he really doesn't like you, demand that he tell you to his face. But be open about the way you feel. You don't owe anyone else an explanation as to if you like him or not. Just talk to him and be honest.

[Asker]

babylolita I want to, but i'm scared to talk to him, what if he ignores me? and we have school tomorrow, we're in the same class...

[babylolita]

All I can say is be brave and take a chance. It might be because you denied your feelings that he thinks you'll deny his.

[Asker]

umm yea ill try, but i dont know if i can...

[wkgyrfwkgr]

Confront him and tell him how you actually feel, if he cares enough he won't get upset and ignore you, the fact that he thinks you don't like him probably upset him, so you need to tell him how you actually feel

[Asker]

But then what exactly should i say? yes, thats what i was thinking because he use to smile and look at me, but after i said i dont like him, he kinda just ignores and avoids me... But what if he doesn't like me? How should i approach him and tell him?

[wkgyrfwkgr]

Well, catch him when he isn't around anyone or take him away from them and ask to talk to him about you saying you didn't like him, when he asks why or what just tell him why you said what you did and how you actually feel, if he likes you back he will be relieved and smile, if not he will tell you, if he doesn't you shouldn't waste your time on him