Why is he suddenly avoiding me?

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I know for a fact that my crush likes me (he that is utterly shy). But now he’s avoiding me as if he can’t be in the same room with me. Every time I try to at least find him and talk to him he’s always somewhere else talking to someone. Am I overthinking it or he’s just not interested anymore?

Strafe_19 · Accepted Answer

Many reasons to consider
1. He's not interested anymore
2. He's found someone else
3. He's trying to see if you notice his shift
4. He is too shy and feels like he came in strong
5. He's so shy and feels like you didn't get the hint and now he's mad.
6. He never liked you and is playing games with your head for fun

Personally I don't know why you would want a shy guy anyways, go find someone with balls.

mrbobz · Accepted Answer

If he is shy and you KNOW he likes you... then he might be trying to get you to come to him... OR.. he is worried he has spoken to you too much and is running away to give you space so he won't annoy you and put you off

WhatTheHellAmy2 · Accepted Answer

Hun. I’m still young but something I’ve learnt in my years is that we can’t read minds.

I’ve shared my feelings all the time ever since I turned 15 or so.

Go on. Go ask him.

Dude, u okay ma nigga? Y u always leaving? I ain’t biting.

And then he’ll reply. He’ll be like.

Oh dudette, me just shy. You just 2 hot. Do u really want to be with me?

Yeah nigga. Come kiss me.

puffynips · Accepted Answer

I personally hate Games and Drama.
From an outsiders oponion live your life and if he wants to be together, the silence of you doing our own thing gives you the independence card.
Not chasing will make him either to come to you our your life will move forward and towards a other rich and rewarding goal.

Moochii · Accepted Answer

This is why I can’t date people my age, nor overly shy dudes.. aren’t mature enough to deal with. Shy or not, just can’t deal with them.

Barrabus_the_Free · Answer

I don't know, but that chick on the right in the photo has a pretty impressive beard for a woman.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Sounds like he's battling with himself to take plunge and just hoping you'll do the easy work for him.

Anonymous · Answer

If he hasn't told you he likes you, you can't assume he does assuming makes an ass out of u and me

SarahsSummer · Answer

How do you know for a “fact” he likes you?

Sweatyotterr · Answer

Maybe you friendzoned him on accident

Fuentes · Answer

You sound like your in HS

Anonymous · Answer

He must be very shy

Why is he suddenly avoiding me?

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