I have a crush on a guy that's out of my league, should I let it go?

[Anonymous]

He is very smart, I get by. (we're in Varsity)

He is a hard worker, I'm the laziest person I know.

He is a committed 7th day Adventist, I don't even attend Church.

He comes from a well off family, lol mine's just ohk.

What else?...hes a vegiterian and I loove meat.

We happen to both like animation, that's the only thing we have in common right now, what should I do?

[spexie]

If you have a crush on him just because he's cute, then get lost. Sorry to say this! Now I'll answer sth good. I believe if you love him, or at least feel stronger feelings for him than only liking his pretty face or muscles or whatever sexual desire you've got towards him, I recommend you not to surrender. Let him know you exist, Make him fall in love with you. No one's out of your leage unless you believe so. I don't know you, but I know you can have the guy you want if you commit to it. There is no impossible love except for that one you won't fight for. I wish the best for you and your crush's relationship, but once again... If you just like him for his pretty face get lost. :)

[Asker]

Lol you are so funny, yes he is very cute, in my eyes. Believe me its so much more than that, I just like the way he is, the way he speaks...he seems to be a really nice guy, I want to know him better, and we've started chatting on Facebook and he seems to be funny too, its just hard for me cause I just broke up with my first boyfriend in January, now I don't think I can ever trust any guy again, I don't know what to do.

[Lucifatianu]

He masturbates, every man who doesn't have a woman masturbates, it's just not something we like to admit. You're a woman, no man is out of your league, unless you go for a millionaire or are dumb as a brick. If he's a religious nut and you are a realist, it might be best not to waste your time on him.

[Asker]

Lol I believe being religious is a huge commitment, and I would like to get to his level of belief, or even deeper, cause a strong relationship with God makes a person understand life a bit more than a non-believer. Lol thanks for reminding me that no man's out of my league, I think you are absolutely right.

[Anonymous]

Opposites attract! Stick with it for awhile. Give it some time, so how things go. Make a decision a little later. Maybe try to get to know him some more. Focus on a friendship first and let it develop.

[Asker]

I like the part on focusing on a friendship, but I like him too much, I don't think Id be able to be his "friend".

[Opinion Owner]

Well you don't have to friend zone yourself. What I meant was hang out with him, really get to know him. yadda yadda ya. Flirt with him! (:

[Asker]

Lol but I'm not good at flirting, I don't wanna make a fool out of myself, plus, when I'm around him I act a bit odd, I don't talk much and I hate that!

[Opinion Owner]

It helps me to just not think about it too much. And if you do say something that you think makes you look "odd" just remember that eventually he probably won't remember it. And if he does he'll probably just think it's one of your quirks that makes you unique:) But as to not talking a lot, just act like he's one of your good friends. Or find a topic you're both interested in!

[Anonymous]

GO FOR IT! Just get some chloroform, pour some on a towel, and use it on him right after practice when no one is around. Then once he's unconscious, just drag him to a hotel or your room...wherever you'll be alone for a while. Tie him up to a chair or a bed and proceed to do...things to him. HE won't say no I promise

Good luck! ;) LOL

[Asker]

Looooool ha ha "do things to him"...lol I'd do that, but I won't do it cause I know he'd stop me, he's very committed to his Church...plus, doesn't even masturbate(saw that through stalking him on Facebook)...I wouldn't wanna ruin such purity! lol...nice advice though haha