Is it rude to tell a guy that you have to go after seeing him?

[Anonymous]

I felt really bad and I was scared that he thought I was being rude. I really did have to go though. I had somewhere to be and I was scared that he thought I was being rude or something.

[Avcfhcic]

Not rude really, it's just something that can manifest into something else.
Think about him, just had a nice time with a girl then she has to go after doing it, you question yourself, did I do something wrong? Was I no good? Does she really like me or is she using me? What's wrong with me?
Reassurance is important

[Asker]

That’s good to hear. We aren’t in a relationship, but I think he likes me.

[Avcfhcic]

Since you left, you should also organise the next time to do something

[Asker]

He knows that I will because I usually do. 😊

[Avcfhcic]

That's good, have fun 😊

[Asker]

Thanks a lot. I’m just scared that I came off as rude when I actually had to go.

[Guy13]

Tell him about your trip there or where or why. Include him in it like the “date” is still fresh for you ‼️ Got it-compliments for a guy to be remembered in this world 😎

[Asker]

I told him where I was going but I didn’t wanna come off as rude or anything.

[Guy13]

You’re missing my point.

[Asker]

What even is your point lol?

[Guy13]

All you did WW as justify that some thing, with excuse, is more important than him. THINK 🤷🏻‍♂️. You should go into, MAN detail NOT incessant woman detail, the process or activity. Obviously 🙄, you are lying 🤥 or hiding the truth. Way to go 🎉. Created an insecure male.

[Asker]

Huh? What are you talking about? I wasn’t lying?

[Asker]

Unless you’re talking about him being insecure?

[Sour-rose]

No. If I say i gotta go, i mean gtfoutta my way. Unless he wants me to piss on his leg, i mean it

[Noodle_fan]

not to me

[Asker]

That’s good to hear. We aren’t in a relationship, but I think he likes me.