Do You Think People Who Have Sex With Others Twice/Thrice Their Age Had Been M0lested As Children?

[fonduegirl]

i know age is just a number and you can like someone older or younger due to certain aspects. 10yrs age gap is normal in certain cultures, which is fine as long as it's not forced.

but, here im referring to people who would not date others their own age no matter what, they strictly prefer someone their parent's/grandparent's age.

[Nigjt]

No I myself was not molested but I do like older Women and very much younger Women than myself.
The older Women are just as horny as a young Woman if not more so the older Woman it's like they are starving an so when it comes to older women they have the time the money but not the patience they don't care they just want you to take them home and raped him make them do whatever it's like they want to play like they don't want it but when you get them in certain places and you make it come out which is all very dirty little secrets it becomes a fountain of information which is their life and they can't control it it's game on.
On the other hand the younger women want to play hard be treated soft but firm and rough and party all night long so you got to have energy to be able to handle one of them you got to know how to tame her make her truly yours.
This is why I like the older ones and the younger ones then you have the ones that are my age that I won't say are confused but willing to go either way or do it all as long as you show them how because all they truly want is just someone.
God Bless

[DJB72]

No more than older people who only date someone young enough to be their child are automatically paedophilic in nature.

I'm 50 now and I'm fairly certain if I were single again at my age I'd be comfortable dating women 25 years younger than me. Probably more so than older women.

[dustybiker]

There are countless reasons for people to date older people.

The only true “sign” I am aware about when it comes to child sexual abuse is a grown woman with a tiny girl voice.

[Lighthouse29]

Okay it may be normal to some but to me it is disgusting i cannot do that

[Paige90]

It would be disgusting for you to have sex with a 38-year-old guy?

[fonduegirl]

@Paige90 yeah

[Lighthouse29]

Yes it is to me

[Jennz6]

I would love it

[Jennz6]

@Paige90 she must be very young

[Paige90]

@Jennz6 I agree

[Lighthouse29]

It has nothing to do with being young its a matter of preference and i dont like that :) , and I believe you should respect that

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I’d have sex with a woman at least 52 years old. I don’t give a damn about age. I did have sex with a woman almost twice my age. Does that count? Yes, I’ve been molested. I think molestees are more likely not to care about age, but that’s my personal thought.

[AimeeKyle]

In my sister’s case, a definite no. I can’t speak to anyone else.

I attempted to hook up with a much older woman once in my early 20s…I don’t think she was quite twice my age but I didn’t ask either. For me it had little to do with age (but was intrigued to find out if there was a difference with age). I was single, she was single, was in good shape had long hair and was very pretty. (And no, I wasn’t molested either).

[AsaKyo]

They probably do have some kind of underlying issue involving their parents, but I wouldn't go as far as to say "molested"

[Avicenna]

I don’t think there are many people that fit the narrow description you gave. Some people would have sex with a much older or much younger person should the opportunity arise, and I think that’s usually just wanting sex.

[macjets007]

I think it stems from having daddy/mom issues. They are likely looking for a romantic version of that which is really weird but it is what it is.

[Bexxiib]

Ho early while this is quite possible there are many other reasons why people go for older people.

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

In my opinion the younger man get attracted to an older woman most likely because of her poise, her social graces, her contacts. She has a polish which he hasn't yet acquired.

[fonduegirl]

But why would he hold "older age" as standard criteria?

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

Well its not a standard but more like a preference.,

for instance he may prefers to date older women because they don't try to act older like younger girls.,

[fonduegirl]

It's a standard and no longer a preference if you strictly conform to it

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

Well its not so easy to define that , attraction is a complicated thing , it happen so very often that you find someone who doesn't meet any of your standards and yet, you still say, "Finally, I've found the right one... getting attracted is spontaneous its so damn damn unpredictable., so we cannot put a bracket around it and define any conclusion around that.

[fonduegirl]

True. You can be attracted, or even fall in love with someone who doesn't meet your standards. I have once.

I wouldn't date them though.

[Gagname]

“Everyone’s Different” — people have different preferences, and different motivations for why they do things.

[OlderThanILook]

No. Some people just like older partners. If furries exist, I think people that like older men or women aren't too strange.

[shortster]

I don't think so. Though who knows, with childhood sexual trauma, anything is possible; as it does a number on your psyche.

[Guy13]

21 and over, I see no issue. 21 and over with sun 18 is a problem for me 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Chazmatazz269]

Not necessarily molested, but very likely parental issues of some sort.

[slatyb]

No relationship. People do fall in love with others at a different age.

[art84]

Probably not, I like older and younger women and have never been molested as a kid.

[pizzalovershouse]

I think it's just hormones that create a attraction

[Js3522]

not in my case, for me age doesn't matter

[Jennz6]

Yes I do, or maybe something worse.

[call_me_scar]

Not necessarily some people just got a kink

[Debbie14217]

posssibly... I don't know

[DaisyM23]

not really

[EaterPeter]

Quite possible.

[Blackcupcake]

no I don’t think so

[xJayleenx]

Maybe not all