My girlfriend is always online?

[juangonz14]

My girlfriend and I just started living together, I have noticed she is literally online all the time. She has as far as I know 10 or more social medias tiktok's ig's twitters where she will post and like content all day. She has 4 twitter accounts for various projects etc. She is online all of the time and will stay up till like 2am or 3am online. Is this a red flag?

[Anonymous]

Does she spend time with you and others IRL? Or does she spend more time on her phone? Have you talked to her about this? If not, I would recommend you bring this up to her.

Does she use social media for work or is it just for entertainment? Either way, spending way too much online is never good for her or for the relationship. The first step towards this is to confront the problem. For example - tell her “Babe, I feel ignored whenever I come home from work and you don’t look up from your phone to say hello” or “I feel like we haven’t been spending time together lately. How do you feel about going on a date with me on X day? No phones, nobody else. Just us.” By doing so, you're not placing focus or blame on just your partner. Rather, you're bringing up your own feelings and in turn, lessening the chances bae will become defensive. “
This doesn't make assumptions about what your partner is thinking or feeling, which can also help make her more open to hearing you out.

Don’t expect changes within a few days. It will take some time. Good luck!

[DEXTER_LIVES]

She's basically addicted to it and it can be a big problem if that's not what you want in a partner. Not to mention, she's most likely interacting with tons of men online everyday who she will have as back up options ready for her the second your relationship has problems.

On the plus side, she's addicted to social media so it's not like she's going anywhere.

[Guy13]

Perhaps... what’s her purposes⁉️

For me, I use the internet and mostly this site to keep me awake as I work in 5 different time zones if you count whole of USA. 11-12 hour differential being one zone…90-100 hour work weeks. I’m online in one form or another and mostly concurrently