She goes offline when I come online. What should I do?

[gotagrush]

Hi , i got a crush about my friend which is in my class... My other friend told her about my feelings and now everytime i open facebook and she is online she goes offline within seconds/minutes which is so weird in school she talks to me etc etc.(Everytime i post a pic in instagram or facebook she likes it) Another weird thing is that this Sunday she saw me in street and turned the head in the opposite direction like a ignore... I don't know im getting sick and tired about her. I really love her but look what she does... What should i do? Should i tell her in face or start ignoring her?

[AmbitiousLatina]

It seems to me like she might only like you as a friend. she's not interested romantically. If you want her attention i would say to be polite and say hi wen u see her then restrain from talking to her. Dont ignore her but play hard to get. You should also try flirting with other girls infront of her. I know its childish but girls honestly do sometimes want what they can't have.

[gotagrush]

Well thanks but come on if she likes me as a friend why she wouldn't talk to me? Today in school we had some eye contacts but i didn't wanted her to talk today..

[AmbitiousLatina]

The reason she probably wants to be your friend but won't talk to you outside of school is because she knows your feelings. She might have feelings for u and is scared of them. Ergo she wants to be friends. Or she knows your feelings and doesn't want to talk to u becuz she doesn't want to lead u on. At school is different because thers no pressure its just one person trying to learn to another. Plus most likely its unavoidable.

[gotagrush]

What do you think as a girl should i tell her in school or try to invite her for a coffee?

[gotagrush]

+ I dont have enough courage to tell her :(

[matheus_mb]

Perhaps she's trying to play hard to get. Or she's unsure and insecure about this situation. Or she wants nothing with you. How do you find out? You should talk to her specifically about it.

[gotagrush]

I don't know this... That's why I find myself in between. I wanted to talk to her but i haven't got any good opportunity to invite her

[matheus_mb]

Well, you don't find an opportunity you make one. I mean it, better doing something than regretting later for not having done.