With younger women/older men, is it just daddy issues or is there a certain something a man does that attract younger women?

[Dacatme]

[lightbulb27]

there's two sides to it, so no.

People connect at the emotional level, and of course in other ways... like exchanges of value. People of different ages can connect emotionally.

The psychology of male and female is at play... reality is, females crave emotional/physical/financial security. Older men sometimes look better for that reason.

There are "old souls"... people just feel and are more mature than their physical years.

And of course... parental issues and traumas can influence someone substantially until resolved.

Lastly, women especially can be abused into relationships or life they don't want... such as trafficking. So observe, trust your instincts and be a good citizen.

[HighValue]

Older men have a more masculine face more often, know what they want in life if they are 28 +, are set in their ways so what you see is what you get, and one o fthe best thing about older generation of men is they are better at video games if they have equal practice time. :)

[BlueScorpio]

I think it's a maturity thing. Some women see older men as more mature and financially stable than younger men. They think he will be more serious about what he wants and take relationships/commitment seriously as well. But honestly that's a toss up, men can be mature and immature at any age and not want deeper relationships. It all depends on the person personality/morals and not so much age.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Some women see older men as more mature and financially stable than themselves, and they would rather date for money than actual love because they are immature and lazy, and for whatever reason, in spite of that, they still think a mature and funancially stable guy would want a leech for a wife, because their emotional intelligence/empathy is too low to realise otherwise*

There, I fixed your sentence to be brutally honest.

[TheSpaceGnome]

financially*

[BlueScorpio]

@TheSpaceGnome sounding really bitter for no reason man. You gotta let that go, it's killing you emotionally.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Incorrect.

I'm not bitter, I'm not even speaking from personal experience, gold diggers are quite rare, and is not something you typically see in the type of women I meet (that type being hardcore online gamers and graphic artists, you can't be poor or lazy and still have those things as hobbies).

[katiesmuff]

@TheSpaceGnome WOW! You sure have a very bitter attitude here. Just how long ago did your love leave you for an older and wealthier man.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@katiesmuff Thats never happened to me lol.

A person can in fact call out bullshit for the sake of shaming it alone, even if they never personally experienced the problem.

[CarolineW]

It's the fact that they behave in a mature way and not like 5 year olds, which young guys do

[TheSpaceGnome]

The ironic part, is most of the women wanting that are immature.

[Phoenix98]

In my experience at least all the girls I’ve been with who liked older guys it stuff like they were more mature and knew what they wanted and were settled/stable and also every one of them had daddy issues or issues with their father in some capacity.

[Googlemyahoo]

I know of a woman who was in her 30s married a coworker in his late 60s & he’s retired now. He had a wife of over 30 years and grown kids almost as old as his new wife.

I knew her personally & she was an asshole. When I see her I always sing “Old man ballssss!”

[Torosblanca96]

I think most women are sexually molested by their father or uncle or some other random and unrelated adult male when they're little and eventually develop a fetish around older men, it's disgusting. I think it's more optimal for an older woman to be with a younger guy. If you're a guy who likes younger women you're a creeper in my eyes.

[Finchie40]

Most younger girls I have dated like the maturity compared to a younger guy , Girls tend to be attracted to a guy she can look up to and that actually listens to her , this is what I was told

[dustybiker]

[Avicenna]

It probably is some of the time, but all of the much younger women I have dated except one came from intact, two-parent homes.

[Tyrael]

Older men are more likely to have money and assets.

[Massageman]

Patience: we have patience. That- along with a somewhat slower arousal response- allows for a more simultaneously pleasing ending to certain adult activities.

[TroyDT]

Older men are generally more established. Younger women generally have more fertile years ahead of them. Makes sense if you want to start a family.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It's the fact that they don't want to grow up. Usually its poor and lazy women who want to leech of an older guy's wealth.

[Anonymous]

The younger guy/girl often has mommy/daddy issues and the older man/woman likely has grooming/pedo tendencies. Both scare me

[AsaKyo]

They either have daddy issues, want money, or like huge age gaps

[Ironic_Method]

Only half of the younger women I date have daddy issues. There's much more to it than that.

[sicosico]

He lasts longer and take shis time on my pleasure

[maximumpower]

Quite often daddy issues but may have something to do with the size of his wallet.

[msc545]

That "certain something" is called "money".

[jimmy2]

Younger women know that older men are not going to run off, they not going to cheat. There love for her is real and each day is precious

[Anonymous]

It can be daddy issues (lack of having a proper father) or money. They really love money.

[Anonymous]

Older men are just better in every single way. They are the complete package.

[slatyb]

He works at a career.