Like a 24 year old who's into women in their 40s or older. I always see people say women who are into older men have daddy's issues but never see younger men being judged for being into older women
Hahaha… No, I don't think so. It implies that they all have insecurities because of toxicity or other inappropriate associations with their moms, which just isn't the case with most of those guys.
Some guys are a little more mature and have "weighty" personalities or what my gran used to call "an old soul." Those guys are just nice to be around if you're a lady and don't like to deal with bs or drama. They aim to protect and help and generally be there for you — and the sex… you can use your imagination. The thing is that in the successful, long-lasting younger-guy-older-gal pairings I've seen, the woman is also "a younger soul" and is able to find more things in coomcommon with younger guys than with older guys.
Having said this, I have had to coach a few guys away from the concept of dating an older woman. They're not mature enough and while they are just fed up of the drama of younger woman who want the moon in a hat served on their nightstand… they're not prepared to satisfy an actual woman who has lived a bit more.
It's the combination of know-how (or experience) and personal character that basically helps a woman see if a younger guy is for her.
I usually tend to think it's just the "older woman who's more mature & experienced" fantasy. Its pretty common for younger men to have that type of fantasy. I never think someone has mommy or daddy issues though. They just like older men or women.
No, they are into sex without attachment. Older women honestly date younger men, knowing exactly what they expect from them... and a smart 24-year-old man, will get down with an older woman who is more than willing to make it as easy as possible for them... and she will dispose of him later.
I am 47 and I have had 40 + year old women, who go online to hook up with younger men just for sex without strings attached. Dispose of them, and after a month or two she feels horny again... and goes back online and finds another young buck more than willing to provide what she wants. No strings attached.
Nothing wrong with it, as long as they are honest and upfront about it.
I think so because it doesn’t make any sense
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It just depends really. I do my best not to judge people. But it’s easy to tell sometimes when a relationship doesn't seem right and most the time my gut is right.
It all depends. If two people who are adults genuinely love one another. Then that’s between them.
Mummy issues aren't as common with men, that's why you don't see them getting scrutinised as often. Men are more likely to be absent from the kid's life (since you know, the woman kinda has to be around for those first 9 months. The man could be absent completely), which leads to people trying to replace their paternal figures. This is especially common in women too, since father daughter relationships become pretty disconnected when the teen years set in.
If he's trying to date an older woman, it's likely because she can cook, clean and provide. There's usually mummy issues to account for it
I'm a 40 year old woman dating a 26 year old guy. My boyfriend has always had a great relationship with his mom, and doesn't have any 'mommy' issues.
If he were looking to me as some sort of 'mother figure' then I would not be attracted to him at all. When I'm someone's girlfriend I don't want to be thought of as their mom. That just doesn't work.
the opposite when he was young his ma was 30 not 40. so not related to ma.
I don't think so 🤔 maybe in my case? When I was younger I was into older women. Now I'm into younger women but a well kept older lady who looks after her appearance is as good.
Not necessarily, most likely they are just desperate because they lack the value to attract younger women.
Mommy issues, submissives, desperate housewives, experienced, who knows?
Maybe not Mommy issues but they probably watch a lot of porn and have a MILF porn brain fantasy thing
Well it would make sense. I don't think that's always the case though, for either.
I watched porn when I was younger and all the girls in it were older than me. I was a teen and the girls were generally in their 20s and 30s.
Some yes but I think most that date older woman just like the older generation.
I don't know good Q! I suppose so but I have never seen a relationship like this up close.
Not necessarily
I prefer older women because they understand when you're busy and are less likely to have been indoctrinated by liberalism
No, the MILF fetish is about a mature, attractive EXPERIENCED woman for a simply sexual dalliance.
That is partly true but older ladies are generally nicer and kinder. They look for characters more than just money..
More likely money issues instead of mommy issues.
Possibly and Probably.
Who knows? I've never been into old broads.
Well most men never grow up.
Im 32 open to dating older women
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